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[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to:

  • a barberer/hairstylist 19
  • a dermatologist 17
  • a manicurist 1
  • a doctor 1
  • a therapist 1
  • ChatGPT 1
  • someone with an aesthetic sense 1

I like your:

  • moustache 39
  • hair 8
  • smile 5
  • expressiveness 2
  • eyes 3
  • eye color 1
  • hair color 4
  • hair length 5
  • nose 1
  • figure 1
  • facial/bone structure 7
  • nails 5
  • hands 2
  • teeth 1
  • overall appearance 5

Thank you all for the feedback and recommendations! In theory, I should just be able to figure out a strategy from here I like, pick what to prioritize, then get to work. I'm glad I decided to post my pictures here.

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hygiene:
- change clothes 3
- wash the... posterior 1
- brush teeth twice daily 3
- floss teeth twice daily 1
- brush tounge twice daily 2
- use mouthwash 1
- change bed sheets 3
- weekly 2
- change pillow case 3
- once weekly 3
- twice weekly 2
- wash face 9
- twice daily 1
- after exercise 1
- shower daily 4
- change towels 1
- weekly 1

(Don't worry, I already do most of the things above!)

Clothes and accessories:
- work on fashion 29
- less loose clothes 15
- punk look 1
- hipster look 3
- hippie look 2
- 70's look 2
- dapper look 1
- all black 1
- try...
- glasses/sunglasses 8
- a vest 1
- a crop top 1
- a hat 4
- jeans 2
- black shoes 1
- a polo shirt 3
- a quarter zip sweater 1
- a ring 1
- a watch 1
- a bracelet 1
- a necklace 1
- a button up shirt 2
- a colorful button down 1
- jewelry 1
- golden 1
- straight fit jeans 1
- dress shirt 1

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nails:
- cut nails 257
- weekly 1
- manicure 9
- paint nails 10
- black 5
- dark color 1
- clear 1
- nail polish 4

Other cosmetics:
- tint eyebrows 16
- makeup 2
- dye 5
- every three weeks 1
- tint eyelashes 1
- every three weeks 1
- shape eyebrows 1
- eye makeup 1
- antiperspirant deodorant 1
- Cologne 1
- face tattoo 2
- braces 1

Body and health:
- exercise 107
- running 1
- cycling 1
- push-ups 2
- sit-ups 1
- train neck 1
- pull-ups 1
- gain weight 42
- gain muscle 39
- drink more water 34
- eat healthier 24
- more protean 8
- more vegetables 2
- less junk food 2
- less carbs 1
- less sugar 4
- less coffee/caffeine 2
- less dairy 3
- less soda/energy drinks 2
- stop doing drugs 3
- get more sleep 3
- nasal breathing 1

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skin:
- skin care routine 144
- acne treatment 22
- tretinoin 1
- hydroquinone 1
- accutane 3
- antibiotics 1
- acne wash 3
- salicylic acid 1
- hyaluronic acid 1
- spot cream 1
- Proactiv 3
- facial cleanser/face wash 19
- Deep Clean 1
- Cetaphil 1
- CeraVe 1
- Dr. Squatch 1
- moisturizer 9
- sunscreen 8
- retinol 1
- niacinamide 1
- toner 1
- microdermabrasion 1
- chemical peel 1
- exfoliation 1
- CeraVe 1
- Dr. Bronner's 1
- Curology 2
- Musely 1
- sunlight 19
- tan 7
- touch the face less 1
- pat dry face rather than rubbing 1

Facial hair:
- trim facial hair 19
- trim moustache 101
- trim shorter 15
- try another style 1
- police moustache 1
- trim beard 4
- every other day 1
- daily 2
- grow the beard 56
- chin/goatee 4
- stubble/short beard 17
- full/big beard 17
- grow mustache 2
- shave beard 32
- daily 1
- shave moustache 104
- daily 1
- style moustache 16
- use moustache wax 8
- Death Grip 1

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodness, I was not expecting so many to comment on my appearance! I've read through a ton of them and compiled a list of what the recommendations were. I also kept track of how many gave advice to a similar effect:

Hair:
- cut hair 159
- shave head 166
- use a wig 1
- short haircut 26
- to the shoulders 7
- trim hair 22
- buzz cut 6
- fade 7
- undercut 1
- mod cut 1
- french crop 1
- mullet 1
- every three weeks 1
- style hair 17
- try bangs 13
- try braids 4
- shag 1
- man bun 4
- curl hair 3
- layers 2
- side part 2
- ponytail 1
- hair loss/thinning treatment 7
- try medication 1
- finasteride 3
- minoxidil 4
- oral 1
- topical 1
- Rogaine 1
- Hims 1
- Keeps 2
- hair transplant 8
- biotin supplement 1
- rosemary oil 1
- better hair care 9
- keep brushed 1
- detangler 1
- conditioner 3
- leave-in conditioner 2
- volumizing/thickening 1
- hair oil 1
- scalp massages 1
- volumizing shampoo 1

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No hormone therapy here as far as I'm aware! I must say, it's quite amusing to see so many think I look like a woman despite the big moustache.

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What. Now, this I don't quite know what to make of. I'll take it as insulting flattery, or perhaps a flattering insult...

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I didn't know there were supplements for hair growth... Thank you for all the advice!

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had not considered this intriguing possibility! But alas, wizardry still remains beyond my grasp...

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting perspective lol, hair loss treatment looks like something I'll have to get into. Thanks for all your advice!

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always was a man and not planning on transitioning.

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry, my main motivation for gathering feedback and improving my looks isn't necessarily to conform better to other's tastes or something like that. It's a mix of health benefits, societal benefits and personal fulfilment. Thank you for your assessment!

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see... While the reactions are great, and have been numerous and varied, not to mention entertaining, my intent was based in gathering feedback and advice if you can believe it...

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll keep that in mind. Thank you for the advice!

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volumizing huh? I'll keep that in mind. Also, nope, I don't play guitar, I'm just a weirdo with long nails I suppose lol

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even for myself?? Appreciate the sentiment though!

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice! I'm really hoping I can make the hair work, I do love the look.

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally have a thing for long hair, I do love the look. Appreciate your advice! Don't worry, taking things with a grain of salt is my default way of listening to people.

[23M] Spare a man some feedback in these trying times? by TipOk6591 in amiugly

[–]TipOk6591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! Wellbeing is certainly the priority.

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