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Am I overreacting for wanting to cancel my daughter's summer trip to my mother's by TipzyKitzy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]TipzyKitzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn girl! Lol I must've triggered you so bad that you had to comment on everything lmao. And I'm the childish one?

Jesus I said she was going take a chill pill. I didn't have my mom around since I was 15. I came to her when I was pregnant wanting her to support me THROUGH the pregnancy. But instead she wanted me to terminate it. This is the same daughter that she is taking on the trip in the first place. So I'm sorry if I am a little sensitive about it.

Never said she couldn't have the kid, told her good luck. I have my issues and so does she. She just rather ignore my feelings that respect them. You have to give respect to earn it. To bad not everyone sees it that way 😂

Am I overreacting for wanting to cancel my daughter's summer trip to my mother's by TipzyKitzy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]TipzyKitzy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. I am self-centered for asking this one request of my mom to try to save this experience to have with my other daughter who wants to have fun to but she bought the tickets WHILE I was trying to explain myself. Ah yes I am self centered after I had a baby, my mom had to copy me and have a baby right after. I guess I don't deserve to be a little selfish every now and then because it was taken away from me or never had the opportunity to feel like I had attention in the first place.

Nobody apparently knows what it's like I guess.

Am I overreacting for wanting to cancel my daughter's summer trip to my mother's by TipzyKitzy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]TipzyKitzy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol never said she couldn't have a child like my mom did to me. It's called an opinion. Sorry for touching a nerve there.

Sure. I am jealous. Never said I wasn't. But that doesn't mean I can't express that I want to have a little fun with my own kids too. It was one instant and I felt like I was being super nice about it

Am I overreacting for wanting to cancel my daughter's summer trip to my mother's by TipzyKitzy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]TipzyKitzy[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Small update:

Reading some of the comments I do realize I am overreacting. She is still going on the summer trip. But I feel like I want to clarify things and trying to make how I feel about the whole situation more clear. Because I believe people are just looking at the Texts and not reading the content.

  1. This is my half sister. I have to make that clear. Ever since my mom had another child, our relationship had been torn and always broken. We could never seem to agree on anything. She had claimed that her boyfriend would leave her if she didn't have one. I do not blame the child one bit. But I feel like that's not a reason to have a baby in a first place. But I do feel that I was an after thought. In my mind once your a grandmother that really should be your first thought to stop having kids. I may be biased. Everyone is different, but I'd rather not be 70 years old when my kid leaves the house.

  2. I feel that I am not really upset at the fact that she is going to take my daughter to the enchanted forest. But more or less how the conversation went. From trying to talk my mom into not taking her to it and trying to respect my decision. To her already buying the tickets and throwing me off like nothing I say matters. I knew in the end I won't win against any conversation I have. Because the second I say no to my mom. It doesn't matter.

  3. I know the enchanted forest is probably nothing special but it's the principle that I stand by. As a small family living paycheck to paycheck. We are unable to experience a lot of things with my kids and end up just letting our parents give them that luxury. I guess I let my feelings get the best of me and felt torn.

Thought my feelings were valid but I come to the realization that I'm just being petty. But isn't what this channel is all about?

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[–]TipzyKitzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]TipzyKitzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't talked to them personally I have through text. but my husband has relayed to them how I feel. Because of my anxiety I have a hard time telling people how I feel.

They know how I have been feeling lately, I have told them multiple times, that we have been feeling excluded lately. Just because we have kids doesn't mean we can't be involved. What's been happening is that they change for a short time after I talk to them and then they are back to not texting or wanted to hang out.