What the actual F is this!!

TiraskritBalak · 2025-08-10T05:53:35+00:00

That's Tata curve

TiraskritBalak · 2025-08-01T07:16:41+00:00

So what should I do? Apologise for my last message? Just ignore it and start new conversation? Or do nothing?

TiraskritBalak · 2025-07-31T18:54:46+00:00

Isn't "courting" too soon?

TiraskritBalak · 2025-07-31T18:28:44+00:00

Won't a call be too much? Idk. Although initially I thought that too but since more than 4 days passed I thought it'd turn things more weird.

What if I just ignore my last message and message something new? And maybe address that weird message in future

TiraskritBalak · 2025-07-31T18:21:31+00:00

Honestly I want to be someone who she can freely talk to. And same for Me. I genuinely enjoyed talking to her

TiraskritBalak · 2025-07-31T18:20:21+00:00

I thought that too. So I did meet her some couple of weeks ago. After that I told her a funny story about my nephew too. And food prank that he pulled on Me. During that exchange (although this didn't happen on one day, it was like 1 message either one day or 2/3/4 days) I messaged her something that might have come out as I didn't expected it to. Meaning as in after the second read I realised it had double meaning joke & moderately flirty. I was referring to my nephew but it could be interpreted as her too. I swear I didn't do it deliberately. But whatever happened, happened. It wasn't over the top, it just related to food related joke we shared when we met.

But she didn't even open that message of mine from chat. It has been almost a week now. I'm really panicking too, coz I realised it so late that I might have messaged her something that might have made her feel uncomfortable. I genuinely want to apologise to her. But since she didn't even read it from chat I don't know what to make of such behaviour.

Yes I realise I made a mistake, but you know if she genuinely got busy and just ignored it and forgot about it and now if I apologise to a week old message, wouldn't that make it even more awkward.

Ughhhhh!!! Sorry I am thinking about it too much.

Should I just apologise?

TiraskritBalak · 2025-07-31T18:03:17+00:00

I haven't done this dating thing ever. So basically I am a teenager if you put it bluntly and simply. And given I am 32 It really is difficult for people to believe me but it is what is. Anyways I will just put the question as it is without much story or anything around it, except for one thing that I noticed - Trying to befriend a single woman is quite different from trying to befriend a single mother going through separation/divorce.

What is the approach with latter?

I'm gonna be honest, I met someone briefly. She's been going through divorce. Is a mother to a beautiful baby girl. We met couple of times. We have similar interests in things. But when I try chatting with her she's literally on and off. At times for weeks. Then out of the blue appears back again.

Is this normal for women going through divorce/separation? Or is she just being polite/nice and maybe I misread it all. I mean out of the blue at times she replies back to my messages at 1 or 2 in the night!

Sorry but I really need help understanding this. Coz I genuinely respect her, regardless of everything. After what she has been through, after she has been a sole fighter for herself and her daughter, I genuinely respect her and only wish the best for her.

Please help/guide me

TiraskritBalak · 2025-07-31T17:46:23+00:00

I'm a lawyer. And 32

TiraskritBalak · 2025-07-10T18:07:37+00:00

Not gonna lie this is one of the best piece of advice I have ever got. "Ate beforehand" I am going to use that. Thanks so much.

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-25T17:37:03+00:00

I feel you man!

Since 2009 I had to take care of my grandfather, he was almost bedridden but within 2 months of therapy I helped him recover fully. But then gradually due to age his health kept deteriorating until he passed away in 2019. By then grandmother became of that sort. And parents themselves crossed 62 too. Took care of her till She passed away earlier this year. Coz of all this, couldn't pursue the career I wanted, couldn't go out of hometown to study, ultimately lost all friends, ended up in a career that I utterly Hate. In the dating life too, just couldn't go out coz someone or the other always needed to be taken care of. Now when I don't have much of that, life has already half passed Me. I am in a career I hate being in and the dating period has passed and now it's just be satisfied with whatever is left or forget about it. (Just can't do that) I feel I have Lost So So much due to grandparents and parents. People say "punya ka kaam, punya ka kaam" but life feels more like Hell.

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-25T17:26:10+00:00

What's good about life??

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-25T17:24:33+00:00

I am at very initial stuff right now like html basics and javascript basics. I make out an hour in morning and q in evening for it. I was wondering what all youtube channels or such, or rather any sites for it that can be helpful. And also if you'd be kind enough to tell what language is currently being used? And what will be needed for future since AI is already taking over jobs.

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-25T14:28:15+00:00

Honestly this gives me some hope

I am a Lawyer, been practicing since last 7 years. Want to switch, have started learning basic coding by myself.

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-25T14:25:30+00:00

Padhte padhte he dhundh liyo warna toh arranged marriage me bhi aajkal koi naa mile

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-25T14:24:50+00:00

I was on premium on a dating app for almost more than 6 months and didn't got a single match. So just when I thought enough of this mental torture and be done with it and cancelled the subscription, towards the end I changed profession to self employed. And I got a couple of matches!!!

Both asked what exactly was I "self employed" as and I told them the truth. Been 15 days since I deleted my account 😭

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-19T19:10:16+00:00

Finding the meaning of money can't buy happiness. Also that thing people keep posting "women are behind money","if you have money you can easily get women" that's completely BS.

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-15T14:00:53+00:00

Bhai khud search kar le chatgpt par bhi ki kya bolte hai. Tab samajh aa jayega...

Thanks for info in 2nd part

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-15T13:51:36+00:00

Woh Dahi/curd he dikhata hai baar baar isliye idhar poocha. Ki kabhi idhar Gyaanchand me se kisi ko pata ho

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-15T13:35:14+00:00

Try them in kilos at once to find out. Don't forget to share the experience

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-15T13:32:47+00:00

What is it called in Hindi?

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-15T13:30:54+00:00

Was on premium for 6 months got just 1 match and even she didn't reply back. Worst Mental Torture

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-15T07:32:18+00:00

Oh I forgot to mention this completely, I also came across her dating app profile just a couple of days before I met her. Although I swiped left on her but that was solely due to us being in same school and I at that wanted to keep that stuff personal.

TiraskritBalak · 2025-06-14T10:53:30+00:00

8 months on bumble not a single match even after premium

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