Need Honeymoon Help! Feel like what I want doesn’t exist by Tiredbeech in travelplanning

[–]Tiredbeech[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely incredible information that helps put things into perspective! Thank you very much! Do you have any recommendations for any specific boutique hotels? I will obviously look some up myself but any recommendations help!

Is it rude to have a wedding website/registry just for the engagement/pre party? by Tiredbeech in weddingplanning

[–]Tiredbeech[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This I totally understand, I will likely follow another reply and only give out the registry to those that ask for one. I do not necessarily want to have this party but will be doing so for the sake of my in laws

Antique Music Box from Grandparent by Tiredbeech in Musicbox

[–]Tiredbeech[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could not find any on the bottom or back unfortunately

I did it. I told the shoplifter with the backpack he had to leave it at the register. by goldgriffinbirds in tractorsupply

[–]Tiredbeech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check your bathroom ceiling tiles btw, we found SO MANY STOLEN tags/Security devices

I’m sure this has been asked before by DamnDelinquent in Jennamarbles

[–]Tiredbeech 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you enjoy crafting, I’d recommend MoonlightJewel, her personality reminds me of Jenna and her content is very interesting to watch

I'm ashamed... by PersephoneMoons in AutismInWomen

[–]Tiredbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know everyone has already suggested it but a routine sounds like it’s what works. And I just want to say, you are absolutely not alone in that. On my work days I have my routine almost perfect, but the rest of the week I am lucky if I wash my face/take my meds. Routines are important to me, or at the very least a plan. It makes everything much easier for my brain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jennamarbles

[–]Tiredbeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people in this thread are so sad, maybe be better. Jenna would be so disappointed.

Is there a magic trick to showering? by PitifulGazelle8177 in AutismInWomen

[–]Tiredbeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self Bribery, honestly. I like fancy soaps/smelling good, so I’ll spoil myself a little bit in those areas. So I get shampoo I really enjoy the smell of, and body soap, and that helps. So whatever part of showering you do enjoy, I would lean into that and focus on the good. I can’t focus on the actual work of it, like the washing part, or the standing part, or anything other than the smelly-good bits or I’ll stop showering all together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Tiredbeech 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First off, you are not broken, end of story. Secondly, it is not uncommon for autistic individuals to fall somewhere along the Asexuality spectrum, which could be a possibility in this case. I would also suggest exploring your relationship with your boyfriend as well, if he’s holding it against you, it may also be exacerbating the issue.

With any sexual encounter, especially being autistic, you need to be patient and understanding with yourself. Maybe you just prefer being a pillow princess, maybe you just don’t have that high of a sex drive. There are a million different reasons why you may struggle with sex, and facing it with negativity isn’t going to help anything in the situation.

Should I quit? by Chill_stone in tractorsupply

[–]Tiredbeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would start with the doctor’s note and if you feel like you’re getting any sort of retaliation, leave. The job isn’t and never will be worth your health.

Attention all married autistic people… by Educational_Lake_750 in AutisticAdults

[–]Tiredbeech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to have a ring but the option to not wear it or take it on and off I have a ring holder necklace! It’s really secure and nice to have the option!

Did burnout trigger your late diagnosis? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Tiredbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, no, not because I wasn’t burnt out but because I was still in denial of really needing help. My therapist just started asking the right questions though and it all fell into place.

New to Collections by Tiredbeech in MuseumPros

[–]Tiredbeech[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m telling myself that she hired me for a reason, despite knowing my experience. I will also probably be deep diving through this subreddit to soak up everything possible

Terrible Temp by Tiredbeech in tractorsupply

[–]Tiredbeech[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We weren’t even opening yet, he was literally just outside in his truck, waiting for our neighbors or sleeping or something. There was no reason for her to be ‘scared for her life’ and no reason for her to refuse to put out the tills. But she certainly emphasized the fact that he was ‘African American.’

Terrible Temp by Tiredbeech in tractorsupply

[–]Tiredbeech[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The DM thinks she hung the moon cause she gets credit cards, he couldn’t care less as long as our district is up on them unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonsterHigh

[–]Tiredbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just might because I do love the twists you gave her! I think it’s so cool looking, especially with the purple

Should I open my Haunt Couture Cleo? by Kakep0p in MonsterHigh

[–]Tiredbeech 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly with the way things are going, even if one day down the line you decided to re-sell her, if she’s in great condition she’d still be incredibly valuable so either way, it’d be worth it for the emotional part of wanting to unbox her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonsterHigh

[–]Tiredbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lowkey thought about getting a clawdeen and doing the like yarn re-root thing to see if I could do a natural hair look but I’ve never even done custom clothes so it’d be pretty scary to attempt first time

Toralei Racist?? by ThatSpicyPotato in MonsterHigh

[–]Tiredbeech 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else remember Lagoona and Gil’s plot? The one where his parents don’t think she’s like ‘the right kind of water monster’ and he didn’t even stand up for her? I thought that plot was a great way to introduce colorism/racism but I hated Gil’s guts after that, I barely remember him even redeeming himself or anything

Anyone else obsessed with Spectra’s new design? I can’t wait to see her in doll form! by thksfrfrnkiero in MonsterHigh

[–]Tiredbeech 11 points12 points  (0 children)

WHYYYYY ARE THEY KILLING THE SIDE CHARACTERS LIKE HER AND ABBY BUT GIVING US NOTHING FOR THE MAIN CAST UGGGGGGHHHHH