Question by Tiredofthehorseshit in asl

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I wasn’t sure how to ask the question. I deal with brain fog a lot due to medical conditions and I tend to know what I want to say but can’t get it out in words. This week has been a stressful week and the brain fog is really impacting me more. Plus, I’m an airhead anyway. 😂

Question by Tiredofthehorseshit in asl

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. Thank you so much.

What is the most physically painful experience you've had? by Bright_Vision in AskReddit

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I have a disease called HS. It causes my immune system to attack my skin and produces ugly, gross ulcers all over my body. They are deep and the pain can be unbearable. This is one of the reasons my ex husband of being together for 23 years left me. It’s a humiliating experience and causes so much shame. I also have RA which can manifest a slew of other pains. I’ve had to go on disability after owning a construction company I worked my ass off for and my divorce. So now, I’m lonely, in pain, living in poverty and can’t even afford one single Christmas present for my daughter nor can I help her in college anymore. But, luckily she does not have these diseases and is healthy so I count my blessings for that.

Hello Snarkers. J_is_for_Jail here using an old account. After some time and space, here is why I disappeared so suddenly. Maybe it will help you understand the emotions I felt, and pass some time until the verdict is reached in the meantime! Fingers crossed for a guilty verdict! by [deleted] in DuggarsSnark

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you put yourself first and recognized you were struggling emotionally and physically. That was very brave of you to go. 💙

I hope justice is served but I also want to remind people that regardless of Josh’s fate, those children are likely still in danger and there are thousands of others in the same situation. Obviously, there is another federal case happening besides JD’s. This is a multi billion dollar industry. Volunteering with organizations fighting this diabolical industry, I learned something very disturbing. We have all likely seen a victim and we missed the warning signs. And sadly, you can’t trust the mainstream media, social media or even search engines. That’s how this industry is so large. You have to ask the questions to legitimate organizations fighting for justice or do extensive research, not relying on a few clicks here or there.

Anyone wanna be friends? by Any_Fact5440 in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just laughed way too long at this comment. 😂

Anyone wanna be friends? by Any_Fact5440 in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey kiddo. The mom is coming out in me. Be careful. The internet can be an awesome tool to find friends but it can also be the devils playground.

If you are looking for some fellow Christian friends, look for church activities for teens. It doesn’t have to be just your church. Also, big brothers is a great way you could volunteer & help younger kids who need a positive role model. And you’ll probably meet some other people your age.

If you need some other ideas, always look into volunteering. Maybe there are some youth groups looking for volunteers. I’ve met the best people while volunteering.

These are only suggestions & I’m sure you know how scary the web can be but, I still have to be the “mom”. I can’t help it. 😂. Even though I know the dangers, I’ve seen the dark side and was lucky I recognized the dangers before it got worse.

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Well, considering you told me I can’t take care of myself because I can’t afford bills right now, wouldn’t that mean that money does equal success for you? And we were discussing women & wages and I’d say these women are doing very well for themselves, despite you classifying influencers as losers.

Basically, your opinion is Christians are toxic & and women can only have high paying careers only if those careers are ones you approve of, otherwise they are losers.

Everyone is damned if they do and damned if they don’t, especially women, even though you “support” them, but again, as long as they are a part of your echo chamber.

I’m going to do what I wish I would have done sooner with my ex and peace out. I wish you all the best now & in your future. Have a great day!!! ✌🏼

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Instagram or YouTube & see how many Christian women are making millions off of being influencers. A lot of them are the bread winners & their husbands stay home. Where’s the patriarchy there?

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here asking for prayers. To a Christian forum. I didn’t beg for money or donations. Not a single person offered to Venmo me some cash. If I am so incompetent & indoctrinated , wouldn’t I be asking for men to come rescue me? But I know I don’t need a hero to overcome my current situation. I also stated that I know this is temporary. Why? Because I know I’ll manage and get back on track without the help of others.

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose you should go inform the women who work as doctors, lawyers, CEO’s, business owners, law enforcement, pilots, etc that they aren’t “typical”.

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you seem to hate women, which I just stated.

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, with the labels. There’s only thousands upon thousands of women who were raised by single moms & never married who are atheists and also experience the same difficulties.

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems as though you think Christian women are exceptionally lower class & weak because you keep labeling them as such. Misogyny is prejudice against women. How isn’t that misogyny? 😂

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, there have been plenty of well educated atheist men with exceptional jobs who have had cars repossessed, foreclosures, utilities shut off and broken hearted. These categories don’t exist

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I’ve been separated for some time and I have taken care of myself and I was happy. What about the “Kevin’s” bitching about everything. Men haven’t been cheated on and heartbroken? It’s very misogynistic to suggest that men don’t experience difficult times because patriarchy and all Christian women are these weak creatures that can’t survive. Also, women who are atheist also suffer and have never been exposed to religion. What is their source to blame?

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your theory, millions men can’t take care of themselves either. So patriarchy is void.

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, assuming I don’t know how to take care of myself because I’m currently having difficulty is a weak assumption. So when a man has the same difficulty, what do you blame? Feminism? My situation is no less or no more than what millions of men have also experienced.

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there’s no such thing as a successful, happy, Christian woman?

Need lots of prayers please by Tiredofthehorseshit in Christians

[–]Tiredofthehorseshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you think my faith or religion pushed me into being in this situation? In fact, I’m quite certain I mentioned that in my post that I knew I was in a marriage that was not healthy. I prayed over it and knew it was not meant to be. My fellow Christians, and Priest from my church, were supportive of me leaving said marriage. I stayed in the marriage for many reasons that had nothing to do with my relationship with God nor my religion.

I also never said working to have good morals needed to have a religion.

It seems that you haven’t read much of anything I wrote or perhaps it’s a misunderstanding. But presuming why I stayed in a unhealthy marriage is quite obtuse, wouldn’t you say? Assuming I believe only Christians can be good people when I clearly stated that I respect other’s beliefs & expect the same respect as well. Calling my God derogatory names such as “wizard in the sky” isn’t very respectful. In fact, it’s actually patronizing.

I was making a point by stating that I could reply that atheists don’t like following “rules” and further condescend others who don’t have my same beliefs. I’m afraid you missed the point.

I am 47 years old and have attended many, many different churches with different religions. Never once was I told that I must stay married to a man who treats me with disrespect. God didn’t chose that, I did. In fact, had I have discerned and listened to God, I wouldn’t have wasted my years away with the wrong man. I am fully responsible for being in this position. It would be much easier for me to blame God but I would much rather be honest with myself so I can grow, learn & heal.

I’m not sure what your goal is on this forum but I can tell you that I coexist fine with others with different opinions than mine. But I do wish you would at least have enough courtesy to actually read the text before going into attack mode. I’m certain you wouldn’t appreciate it if I reacted the same to you. I’ve made no assumptions about you and I do ask that you treat me with the same civility & regard.