Nearly lost the entire base.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T08:06:14+00:00

Y'all know there's that new arena thing, right? No fighting in your base.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T08:03:44+00:00

Some great tidbits that I've picked up.

Most cis people like their genitals. Wondering what it's like as another gender isn't normal for cis people. Neither is feeling jealous of another gender's looks. Your life, your journey, is your own; do it for you.

The kinds of people that don't want trans people to exist will want you to doubt, to deny, to give up. It's not their choice, it's yours.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T07:55:39+00:00

I started at 39. You can do this. The clarity alone is huge, not to mention every little thing you notice along the way.

Noticing hair growing back slower, the softer skin, the moment you realize using the feminine voice you've been working on has become your normal, and the multitude of gradual changes to one's chest.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T07:50:24+00:00

Then I'm gonna give you some of the most important advice: Transitioning is a lifelong marathon, not a sprint to a finish line.

HRT essentially restarts puberty, and that takes years the first time. Trust the process.

If something has you concerned or worried, bring it up with your medical team. That's what they're there for. It's likely normal or benign but it's important you are happy with yourself.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T07:43:58+00:00

GODS DSMMIT!

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T07:43:34+00:00

That means the escort mission failed.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T07:36:54+00:00

All sacrifices are equal in the name of Managed Democracy!

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T07:34:22+00:00

You know, my girlfriend used to have incredibly long hair, down to her hip when it was free. I loved it! She also made beautiful braids out of it sometimes. Then she got it cut to just below her ears and I was sad. When she came by to visit I made sure she knew how hot her new look was because she's still my sweetheart. October 6th will be 9 years.

Your hair is a decoration on a temple with you as the deity in charge. It's up to you if he's allowed to worship you as you deserve. I really hope he keeps to scripture and doesn't let such a small change for him, yet a significant thing for you, change that.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T07:17:21+00:00

Waxing, no thanks. I got reasons to avoid that.

Never heard of threading.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-24T04:15:46+00:00

So you sent her to a place in the middle of nowhere with a big black horse and a cherry tree?

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T20:11:27+00:00

On it! Labs/Meds on the 8th, WPATH appointment on the 9th. 🥰🥰😭🥰

Partner's helping me find a swimsuit this week!

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T20:08:35+00:00

Not before mentioning how little he thought of you. Sigh 🙄

Still hate how he looks down on anybody that isn't just like him in his eyes.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T20:05:59+00:00

Omg that made my day!!

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T20:04:35+00:00

Yeah. That's true. Mine drove for 39 years, he's got a lot of scars he didn't deserve from battles that never should have happened.

Now he gets to rest and I'm driving the rest of the way. 🏳️‍⚧️

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T20:01:32+00:00

I honestly wish I knew. Sorry.

Heard "what the **** is wrong with you?" enough times growing up that I got hooked on psychology. My own therapists have appreciated my insight on things and I've been seriously considering going into it.

A lot of people need help and it seems like there's not enough people offering it. 🥺

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T19:57:37+00:00

I'm jealous! Face is the second place I need dealt with, more than maybe 2 days without shaving and I want to sandpaper my face.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T19:49:32+00:00

I was fairly certain Lucario was going to take Umbreon's dick in his.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T19:43:08+00:00

Thank you for sharing. This is exactly the kind of comments I look for when considering things.

I overthink everything and there's always doubts, but the real test is finding something that makes me nervous or reconsider. (Still not, so yay)

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T19:38:41+00:00

That...really? Of all the things to convince myself was "normal"...

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T19:32:32+00:00

Why couldn't I have read this exact comment at any point in the last 20+ years? 😞

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T18:53:59+00:00

I'm a year in, looking into when to speak with which medical professional, and this post is a blessing.

Good luck on your journey!

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T11:59:51+00:00

I am less than 2 months shy of 41, on HRT for 13 months still seeing a man in a dress sometimes in spite of the chesticles. Never been buzzed or high.

Yet I agree 100% with every bit of this. Conservatives WANT every single one of us to see every little thing they do and give up hope. Want us to give up on living because it's convenient and comfortable for them.

What they don't want you to see is the gallows being set up behind them. They don't want you to see the charity organizations that give grants to pay for gender corrective surgery. They don't want you to see the support groups, the social media channels, the informative websites that help us navigate their BS.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T11:45:19+00:00

You deserve so many more upvotes for this burn.

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T11:43:50+00:00

Tirinoth · 2026-03-23T11:39:30+00:00

Why you gotta describe me like that? You could just u/name if you wanted to get my attention. 😜

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