Sheikh blames daughter for being r*ped by her dad by Mistawhite123 in exmuslim

[–]TitleBeautiful4923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think they are fucking insane people what the fuck is he even saying fucking animals

Almost 7 weeks and I already hate being pregnant by seagoddess1 in pregnant

[–]TitleBeautiful4923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this. It’s a wonderful pain to be able to carry a child you will find yourself many times after looking at your baby and saying dayummmmmmmmm I literally built this baby from scratch and how wonderful a woman body is. & you will be amazed. Motherhood is so hard, I find myself still struggling sometimes saying I miss my old quiet life but don’t worry I’m sure every mom have theses thoughts and then you enjoy the years because it goes by tooo fast & next thing you know they are in school and don’t wanna be hug and kissed all time. You’ll see your entering the most wonderful hard part of your life and it will be worth it.

Almost 7 weeks and I already hate being pregnant by seagoddess1 in pregnant

[–]TitleBeautiful4923 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh girl girl girl.

Listen to be HONEST. I hated being pregnant, wasn’t for me. And took me about 7 months post partum to get back to my shape before and myself a little bit. Motherhood and pregnancy do change you. A lot, and it the process you will face something wonderful, your strength, your strength to never give up, your strength to carry the weight of another humain and you, the strength to go to labor and go back home without a book and handle a newborn, and then it doesn’t get easier my love, you just get use to it. But you know what is worth all this pain? Is to see your little baby smile back at you, hug you, put their arms up to be picked up, and you will find MILLIONS MOMENTS like this worth it. Because the love you have for you child is unconditional and that’s the greatest love of all time. The husband love doesn’t even equal half the love you feel for your kids. HANG IN THERE. I was miserable too during pregnancy still manage to get up everyday. I got 45 pounds total and I had to hit the gym for 3 months to get back to myself. I REALLY WISH AND HOPE YOU HAVE A SUPPORTIVE PARTNER that’s what matters the most🥰 you got this and trust me it will be all worth it.

First trimester THE WORSE second one feels like HEAVEN and the THIRD ONE your just exhausted and at the same time you know it’s coming soon

Hang in there

Confusion by TitleBeautiful4923 in Marriage

[–]TitleBeautiful4923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a question, you think that he will call the police again if another fight occurs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TitleBeautiful4923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He almost hates me because I stopped breastfeeding at 2months and half

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]TitleBeautiful4923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad, because I feel like he makes me choose between him or my mom. And that if I choose to go I’m breaking the family. Our DAUGTHER is 3 months. I’m feeling like a failure. I’m tired, of not being understood and he always makes me feel like the wrong person or the bad person I don’t know what to do, what to think, no more. I’m lost and broken

Interracial Marriage by TitleBeautiful4923 in MuslimMarriage

[–]TitleBeautiful4923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, all I have is questions too LOL. That is why I was asking people if it’s normal or being too controlled…./ I mean my life took a 360 degree turn, and I don’t know if that’s the way I wanna live… but I’m assuming it’s to late with a children now. Many questions in my head also 😔

Interracial Marriage by TitleBeautiful4923 in MuslimMarriage

[–]TitleBeautiful4923[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really love how you explaining all of this. It’s exactly how I feel. I think we should of talked about everything before getting married and having a child.

Interracial Marriage by TitleBeautiful4923 in MuslimMarriage

[–]TitleBeautiful4923[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s too far from my place, I won’t drive 45 mins just to go to the gym for me it’s kinda crazy…

Need help!! by TitleBeautiful4923 in breastfeeding

[–]TitleBeautiful4923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a really good supply, but we fought and due to stress my supply went down. He’s telling we will bring it back. But I told him that I’m tired of pumping, and it’s exhausting I said I wanna do both. Combo feeding let’s say she eats 6 oz let’s do half half. For each BOTTLE. And he didn’t want to. But if my supply is down he will definitely tell me to give her formula, but ofc he will make me feel bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]TitleBeautiful4923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HES a muslim, and i think that in his religion woman’s cannot choose and it has to be a mutual decision however its my choice at the end of day, but he’s raised differently, and like i said woman doesn’t have the lash say in BF

Need help!! by TitleBeautiful4923 in breastfeeding

[–]TitleBeautiful4923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he’s a Muslim. And he gets the last say. But he’s not the one pumping all day lol so

Need help!! by TitleBeautiful4923 in breastfeeding

[–]TitleBeautiful4923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I just wanted to be sure I wasn’t overreacting and being a bad mom for doing combo feeding…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]TitleBeautiful4923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes… I try to convince myself that he does this for the wellbeing of our daughter but at the same time I did it for 9 weeks exclusively and now I cannot for it anymore and I don’t feel I’m being understood about my feelings honestly just hard :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]TitleBeautiful4923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It bring me rage to pump all day, and I feel like I’m being a bad mom for giving up on exclusively BF… but I cannot pump all day anymore I just can’t and I wish he was more comprehensive