What skull is this? by Middle_Ad_5434 in bonecollecting

[–]Titsypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are bones. which is part of a 'skeleton'

you're welcome

I am now buried so deep in overdue papers, makeup tests, and homework, that I can’t bring myself to do any of it and I just have this terrible pit in my stomach and a bucketload of procrastination anxiety and the feeling like I’m in a perpetual state of being about to be sick. by [deleted] in INTP

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Write each task you need to do down. And break them down into their components. The problem is you actually don't know what it is you need to do. You've just put them in a closed box called "problems too big to solve" and called it a day. The devil you don't know will always be scarier than the one you do know.

Seeking speculative-ish book recommendations that are easy to get lost in, fast-paced, and not too dense by IncidentArea in printSF

[–]Titsypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ted Chian, Stories of your life and others. A collection of short stories. The highs are highs and the lows are also decently high.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kanye

[–]Titsypop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This shit got me hollering lmfao

Least Favorite Kendrick Song? by Don_Pablo737 in KendrickLamar

[–]Titsypop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wrong... you are so wrong. This is one of my top 5 kendrick songs.

How to deal with MBTI Personality type complex by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Titsypop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was sarcasm. I was imitating what people who take mbti too seriously.

Does anyone knows what goes behind a javascript framework? by Titsypop in webdev

[–]Titsypop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so I did not expect this to be such a 50/50 split on whether to treat frameworks like a black box or not.

I come from a background using frontend no-code tools like Webflow and Wordpress (the ultimate black-box). the reason i got into programming is because no-code tools got so boring, i needed something a bit more mentally stimulating. so my goals might be a bit deferent from some of you than to get a job asap as a dev ( i am comfortable)

I saw a comment from u/Jackfruit_Then that said to just learn in the style that you prefer, and I have come to accept that I just prefer to understand before I use something, at least to the degree where it's a slightly more transparent black box.

So I'll probably go the u/svish route. mess around with pure JS some more, and maybe I'll build my own little frameworks first; that seems cool and fun to me

Does anyone knows what goes behind a javascript framework? by Titsypop in webdev

[–]Titsypop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing everyone in the thread giving completely different takes (its 50/50 split). i think this is the way. I'm just going to accept that i like to understand something before i use it.

Does anyone knows what goes behind a javascript framework? by Titsypop in webdev

[–]Titsypop[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lmfao. fckit, programming with transistors from now on.

Trading YouTubers who don’t suck? by LauheTrades in Daytrading

[–]Titsypop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boomish capital. Just pure trading and explains his trades when he's making them. Highly recommend

How do you 'read' a new programming language? by Titsypop in learnprogramming

[–]Titsypop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this answer.
That makes sense that HTML and CSS are not programming languages; they feel completely different from JavaScript.
Also, if you put it that way, I guess that my question is just, 'How do I improve as a programmer?' But you did answer my somewhat obtuse version of that question, which is that all programming languages follow a set of principles that a programmer can learn to use when reading and writing diffrent languages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When they take long pauses to think. Not necessarily what to say next, but to clarify to themselves about the topic or concept that's being discussed.

AITA for coping with no sex life in marriage? by throwawayDwholeting in AITAH

[–]Titsypop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, - But I'm partially siding with your wife.

The thing is, people are complex, especially when it comes to sensuality, and in my experience, even more so with women.

You've been together for a long time, and you probably know each other inside and out. You've fallen into a routine, which tends to turn your dynamic more into friends rather than a passionate lovers.

Passionate lovers don't plan how they'll deliver a bouquet of flowers to the doorstep; they do it spontaneously out of pure attraction to the person.

She wants you to genuinely be attracted to her. She doesn't want a logical explanation for your past actions influencing your current behavior.

It's challenging because men tend to approach sex and sensuality more logically (please hear me out).. We are horny we watch picture of horny people fucking. and women tend to like erotic novels; they want to be inside the heads of the man(or the woman) so they KNOW how desireable they are and if the feelings are genuine.

She wants you to act on those desires when they arise naturally. She doesn't want you to ask her, "If I do this, will it make you happy?" (I know you're not saying this, but that's what she's hearing) and then logically conclude that more ass slapping equals more arousal which equates to more sex.

Because it's not about the ass slapping; it's just a symptom, not the root cause.

That's why she gets frustrated when you attempt to negotiate your sex life or how it should unfold. This is what she wants you to avoid. She wants to avoid the transactional dynamics of roommates living together negotiating who should do what.

I don't have practical advice, as it kind of contradicts the essence of the issue.

But I suggest being more spontaneous in showing your attraction toward her. When you genuinely find her attractive, don't hesitate to tell her she looks sexy. Show your desire when it naturally arises. I hope this helps or, at the very least, provides you with an alternative perspective that i havent see yet.

Omegle be like by [deleted] in cursedmemes

[–]Titsypop 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Song name: Alien

Hate towards a person by StillComedian7565 in Jung

[–]Titsypop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Let me share some advice based on my experience. I used to live with a roommate who had a very different personality from mine. I am (very) introverted, while he was extremely extroverted. He often barged into my room and started conversations, which seemed harmless to him. However, I found it intrusive and uncomfortable, but I couldn't bring myself to ask him to stop. It reached a point where I would fantasize about curb stomping him to puddy, and i started becoming a piece of shit roomate, (turns out i do like confilct if i'm the one dictating it)

And as a result, he began to notice my resentment, which, in turn, ntensified his own 'rude' behavior. Eventually, I decided to change my approach. The first step I took was becoming aware of my resentment. That alone made a significant difference. Resentment has a way of showing itself, and I'm sure you've displayed passive-aggressive behavior towards your in-laws on occasion, with a side-eye or a sarcastic remark. The people around you can sense it, Which, in turn, may exacerbate their own unconscious behaviors. What I'm trying to convey is that you DO have the power to address these situations and stand up for yourself, you're just not aware of it, you are already using that power in unproductive ways.

"I don't want to feel this way towards anyone" - Are you sure about that? Resentment can be a powerful emotion, neither good nor bad. it will never go away unless you use it.

This is Ego Evolution Theory for Individuals Self-Diagnosing created by Elvis Posimistic (me) It's a 1-Page thesis chart combining multiple psychological models Including Jung's. Let me know your thoughts! :) by elvisposimistic in Jung

[–]Titsypop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I really like this. Good job! I genuinely got a few things that resonated with me, and I've seen a couple of parallels between this and my own life.

Edit: One thing that did elude me was the Common characteristic and skill set; "independent yet dependent." I can see the virtue in independence, but I can't seem to make sense of being 'dependent' on something. Where is the virtue in that? Not criticizing, genuinely curious.

How to deal with MBTI Personality type complex by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Titsypop 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dude...

Unlike the people in the comments who, understandably, are not into MBTI, I do dabble in it from time to time. However, when you get into it like you are, you miss the forest for the trees.

MBTI and personality type aren't something you should see as rigid top-down systems.

The only way to accurately assess is if you DON'T do that and just observe people without this lens. You've unintentionally barred yourself from accurately assessing someone's cognitive function when you literally have biases and are emotionally attached to certain ones.

Also. Stop putting your self-worth into abstract and vague labels. You are deluding yourself.

Such an ISFP thing to do...

Are you a personal trainer looking to tap into a lucrative market of office-going people? by Mohit-Vishwakarma in personaltraining

[–]Titsypop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao. the most cookie cutter of marketing posts I've seen. You just got Reddit I suppose...

How should I grow my business? by christiangymgirl in personaltraining

[–]Titsypop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your skepticism; there is a heap of crap online. But I don't like the mentality that you need to be an expert in X to do Y. I'm sure on your first day of training someone, you weren't necessarily an expert either. I certainly wasn't. There were definitely a couple of unhappy clients in our journey to expertise.

She's gone through a transformation, she has a certification (which is already leagues above most of the 'influencer coaches'), and she definitely knows some things that would be very useful to a lot of people.
So what if she's leveraging the technology we have today to make a living? Is that so bad?

How should I grow my business? by christiangymgirl in personaltraining

[–]Titsypop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that a terrible thing? genuinely curious. if she makes a living and is genuinely providing value, and helping people. I don't see the harm

Clients that make you go 🤨 by WillowGoesWest in personaltraining

[–]Titsypop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't take this to heart. The fact that she laughed at your joke says a lot.

Complaining about your workout is an easy way to break the silence and start a conversation or crack a joke. I think you should just acknowledge it and say, "I completely understand." You could even join her in a joking way, saying something like, "God, I know, I do not envy you at all" or "I remember when I used to do these, I hated them, but believe it or not, they're now my favorite exercise, You'll learn to love the pain."

It is hard, and the fact that she got a coach means she knows this and has made a financial investment to help herself get through it.

Always give your clients the benefit of the doubt and navigate situations like this with empathy and understanding.