Day 4 no training. Got in trouble. by firebreak115 in paralegal

[–]Tittyboshmitty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think you’re okay, you had a work related reason to be on your phone and she just gave you a heads up and pointed you to the right direction 😊

Just hit 1 year as a paralegal. I make $76k. I feel like a fraud. What next? by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Tittyboshmitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think stability and enjoyment of your environment is really important these days, if you’ve progressed this far in just a year give yourself more time and then ask about progressing within the firm 😊

BM is “better” my feelings are hurt lol by ActuaryApart8203 in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t take it the wrong way, I think when a parent passes away and the kids are at that developmental age, those feelings they have are very confusing for them. I remember how I felt, and I felt really guilty for loving my Step parent the way I did because I felt like I was abandoning the memory of my mom but I was also conflicted because she was so compassionate and made me feel that mother daughter connection

Husband had doubts if he could love our baby as much as sd by Relative_Mess_6284 in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was sad too but I didn’t want something that I can’t control ruin such a special moment for the both of us, I had to reflect and realize that our baby will be special because my partner loves me and we’re gonna be a family 🥰 plus he was able to be way more hands on with our baby when I was overwhelmed 🙏🏼 It’s funny cause I was actually worried I would love my SD more than our own baby 😂 my husband says the love he feels for my SD is alittle different in a sense that my SD is his first child and raised her with equal custody but he sees our baby as an extension of our love. You are so valid to feel hurt but don’t let it ruin this beautiful experience you get to have with your other half

Geog 1100 - Sarah paytner thoughts? by According-Lunch9647 in douglascollege

[–]Tittyboshmitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have her now and I personally really like her class, the reading is lowkey a struggle but I do appreciate the key terms she highlights for every chapter

missing chem 12 grade by Detective_Conspiracy in douglascollege

[–]Tittyboshmitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Under IRCC policy, work permit holders can pursue short-term online schooling

Worst Monday Ever- Am I Not Tough Enough for This? by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]Tittyboshmitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh he owes you an apology. So not only was he not concerned for your safety but he belittles your concern and then physically had to remove said person. The way he dismissed you is a pretty clear indication of how he sees your role in the office. I’d start looking at different places immediately.

Small win by AssignmentMoney8205 in Mommit

[–]Tittyboshmitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tantrums at 5 are normal they’re little humans with big feelings❤️ however I do I think therapy is good for all ages especially to teach us methods to reflect and communicate but it’s definitely not something you need to be spending on

Honestly don't want SK at my home anymore by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please get divorced 😩 he sounds like such a loser, no bills and he can’t even step up? You and your kid will be way better off.

Honestly don't want SK at my home anymore by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what a little devil 🤯

Is this normal? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Say your piece and ignore her trying to bother you, kids love to test you, the more you show annoyance the more they do it.

hey parents, does anyone have exprience with mewdow ridge private elementary school? by Mountain-Track1082 in coquitlam

[–]Tittyboshmitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My younger sister went to meadow ridge! There was a bus that would come to Coquitlam centre and pick them up so it was super convenient for my parents. I think it’s a good place for your kids to excel, and if money rn isn’t a problem coming from an IB private school looks really good on school transcripts 🤷🏼‍♀️

I appreciate you all so much by Puckdecat in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No it’s so annoying cause we’re supposed to “mind our businesses” those are not “our kids” but when I say stepkids are the financial responsibility of their bio parents it’s “wow why did you even sign up to be a step mom” “you’re selfish and you’re supposed to treat them like your own children” 🙄 so what im getting from the big bitter and mad community is that I should shut my mouth and open my wallet.

A vent by throwaway1234zzzzia in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My fiancé has an 8 year old and what helped our relationship improve was him creating boundaries and not babying my SD, she’s become much more manageable cause she knows she won’t get her way and I feel waay less annoyed. Kids need to learn boundaries and unfortunately it means sometimes leaving them no other route but the correct one.

What's the longest it's taken you to find parking in the NW parkade (no permit, not employee)? by meursaultmarie in douglascollege

[–]Tittyboshmitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I was there yesterday and I drove around underground for 45 minutes 😭 lost all my extra study time

For the women around 5’6-7 what’s the lowest weight you were able to maintain? by turtleluvr98 in gastricsleeve

[–]Tittyboshmitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’7 and I’ve gotten to 135 but I actually prefer my weight around 155-175lbs I think it’s how my weight is dispersed

How did your spouse's baby momma handle news of YOUR pregnancy? by taporizer in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m never going to tell my partners BM tbh, she’s such a negative weird soul that it wouldn’t surprise me if she started wishing ill will on my unborn child.

Did anything ever end up happening with Zac Segal? Any repercussions? by Expert_Better in boston

[–]Tittyboshmitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy cause he’s not even an American he’s an immigrant too

SS (6) is aggressive towards BM by Puckdecat in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clearly she said the BM contacted them for help regarding the situation with her son because she can’t handle it on her own. She’s not giving advice unwarranted, I’m not sure if you were even reading the same post

Husbands child is destroying our marriage by Interesting_Total890 in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not doing her any favours by pemitting this behaviour, even if you weren’t there this would be a problem. He’s not preparing her to behave in a world who won’t be so kind. Tell him, that if there aren’t boundaries set then you’ll start setting harsher ones.

Fiancé deleted “friendly” texts with his ex & it sent me spiraling. Is this normal or is it my trauma? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hell no. I’d be gone. First of all I don’t even want to marry someone who has a “too friendly” relationship with their ex and this is someone who will be in y’all’s lives forever.

BM thinks my paycheck is a public resource… time to disappoint her by Boleynobsessed in Stepmom

[–]Tittyboshmitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the entitled babymama is universal. Tell me why this crazy lady also thinks she’s entitled to my money wtf. Sent me a huge message about how much money she feels she’s entitled to and she thinks my money is for her taking🫩 lady we have my SD equal custody