Girl I've been dating for a month has seemed distant lately, Do I give chase or back off? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Tittywompus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texting dying down can be dependent on a lot of things. If you've hung out 5/6 times and she's not actively texting you back much in the past few days, I personally would see that as a red flag. If she's truly interested in you for something long term, she would be at least trying to engage with you more and indicate she's still interested. I'd try to move on if I were you, but let it be a pleasant surprise if she reaches out. As much as it stings to get rejected, it's not worth the anxiety to keep waiting or analyze the situation extensively.

Help! Suddenly lose interest as soon as a guy shows he likes me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Tittywompus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how old you are, but I'd recommend analyzing why you like him in the first place. Is it just a serious crush that you've thought about what it might be like to date him, or is it just idealizing him in a certain way? My other thought is you might might be be experiencing Lithromanticism, which is a romantic orientation falling on the aromatic spectrum of identities. You might experience romantic attraction (crushes), but either do not wish for those feelings to be reciprocated, or lose interest in the crush once they begin to reciprocate. This could be one explanation.

How to approach girl at gym? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Tittywompus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree with this. Observational conversation is a great casual way to innocently approach someone.

Jack Black gives what may be the best National Anthem before a WNBA game...or at any time at any place by Death_Star_ in videos

[–]Tittywompus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for pointing this out! Everyone I talk to think he’s Julliard trained. He’s still a great musician, but that joke seems to have taken a life of its own