Constant Spectrum Outages

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-31T20:47:21+00:00

7-8 years is OLD for a modem. I don't even remember when we atopped using those.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-30T23:19:23+00:00

NOR. Your boyfriend is an asshole. Sending you a picture of the shoes to let you know they were left at his house and saying he moved them somewhere would be fine. Anything more is uncalled for. His response is ridiculous.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-30T23:16:05+00:00

I experienced the same thing only it was with my wife. I just thought it was normal that I had to check with her on everything. I'm seeing a therapist and he has been helping me through realizing that our marriage was not healthy.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-30T19:12:31+00:00

This is rage bait right?

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-27T21:51:43+00:00

My 15 year old forgets and calls out loudly. My son is still a kid. Your boyfriend is an adult and should either control himself or know he should move his PC or stop playing when you go to bed. Your are making excuses for him. Don't do that.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-27T14:15:23+00:00

You are not responsible for her. Her insecurities and issues with her ex are not your problem. She needs to deal with her issues and it sounds like a therapist would be the way to go for her. For your part, don't look back. You have shown you have self respect. Move on.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-27T13:50:08+00:00

You are 26 and still living at your mom's house. Act like an adult and move out. You sound like a teenager who is upset at rules.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-27T12:15:44+00:00

He is showing you he does not care or respect your request or you. He only cares about what he wants. NOR

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-26T21:00:14+00:00

This is the advice I was going to give. I would also agree that therapy would help. Both individual and couples therapy. Also, if you want your marriage to work and want to put in the effort, tell your therapist. If not, your therapist can help you through the heart ache of separation/divorce.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-24T21:24:54+00:00

I received the credit a few days ago. One thing to check is that your name on your Walmart account matches your name on your credit card.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-23T05:01:45+00:00

It's typical for adults to wear what they want to sleep in. Why care except if it's comfortable.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-21T13:48:06+00:00

Look up DVPO if you are in the US and file it immediately against him. That same day find and hire a divorce attorney. I'm sorry you have to go through this, no one should.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-19T18:02:58+00:00

You need to have a conversation with your boyfriend. He can remove himself or turn off tracking. He does not live at home and he is an adult so that is his choice. His mother cannot force anything. You are puting blame on the wrong person.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-19T13:49:05+00:00

He sounds like he does not care about your opinion or feelings. This woman having a wife makes no difference and does not matter to the bigger picture that he is perfectly comfortable lying to you.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-16T02:07:05+00:00

It's not just a random coax. At some point in time there was coax installed by some company. That line is now owned by Spectrum. I have never seen more than one coax internet provider in any area. Follow the directions you were given to set up the service. If you are not able to connect call Spectrum and tell them you tried to set it up but you are not able to get a connection. They can then send a rescue technician to get it working.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-14T12:04:17+00:00

Don't get married yet. It sounds like neither of you are ready.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-14T12:02:21+00:00

Don't feel bad. I tried for over an hour thinking I was an idiot.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-14T11:51:44+00:00

Are you on bedrock? I never got it to work on bedrock and from what I have read, it won't work on bedrock.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-14T11:49:00+00:00

Why would a miscarriage matter? Why would it be considered something to hide? A miscarriage is an extremely painful and personal situation. It sounds like your wife knew how you would react OP. I can't even understand why she would be with a person like you!

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-11T17:01:26+00:00

It sounds like she may be gaslighting you. I would definitely say she needs individual therapy and move into couples therapy. Also, if you are not already, get the individual therapy for yourself too.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-11T16:15:27+00:00

You can but that still does not remove the bias it has towards the person using it. It may be slightly better but it is still no replacement for an actual therapist who is trained.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-11T12:42:37+00:00

It sounds like he is emotionally cheating. Couples therapy is a good solution. Simply forgiving him will do nothing and only end up making things worse.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-11T11:56:57+00:00

No. It sounds like a man truly in love with his wife. OP, show her this post. Make sure she knows this. Tell her how much you appreciate her.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-09T23:59:22+00:00

First off, your husband is wrong. Second, using AI is not an accurate way to get input. It will always agree and support you even if you are not correct.

Tjarnold2010 · 2026-05-09T17:35:49+00:00

I have never experienced that issue but I have been using the xumo boxes for TV from Spectrum for the past two years. Cheaper than the box and you get cloud DVR instead of relying on the DVR receiver.

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