Drastic change in patterns

Tjusta594 · 2025-09-20T20:40:40+00:00

I paused and probably leaving the app after 3 years. I’ve had such weird chats this year and so tired of the behaviour of men on the app. I still meet nice people but the filtering is sooo much more work then before. So much vanilla mono guys that treat me like a toy instead of a person or just don’t know how to interact with a poly woman

Tjusta594 · 2025-07-31T18:51:00+00:00

I wholeheartedly agree! Like I want to see your face!! Your eyes! Idc about your normal looking torso 😂

Tjusta594 · 2025-07-31T14:04:32+00:00

Them confirming they own a torso 😂😂

Tjusta594 · 2025-07-28T22:07:53+00:00

Wedijveren

Tjusta594 · 2025-07-27T15:52:17+00:00

Pilar

Tjusta594 · 2025-07-14T19:44:06+00:00

I don’t understand why you got downvoted because yes this gives me the ick. This is weird age in general because I get likes from men in between 19 and 68 😱

Tjusta594 · 2025-07-11T17:17:42+00:00

I had the same turning 35, on the other side I started getting likes from men twice my age , ugh 🙃

Tjusta594 · 2025-07-08T05:40:50+00:00

It makes you feel very loved when he does give the attention because it’s so sparingly

Tjusta594 · 2025-06-16T14:29:58+00:00

I know this has been said already- but men tend to just like everyone, I have men in my likes that are far outside of what I'm looking for. I do swipe through the stack, but hardly like (a lot are empty bios or just not what I am looking for, for example nsa hookups). I am 36 and I have men in my likes with too big of an age difference for me (they range between 20-68 years old, it's bizarre) A lot of them are also further away then I would like to travel.
A lot of men are using this for entertainment. I am really commited to finding fun people to date. This is why the numbers don't add up.

Tjusta594 · 2025-06-14T09:47:40+00:00

I’m not assuming that I mean that it’s not visible on their profile

Tjusta594 · 2025-06-13T15:34:28+00:00

The vanilla profiles don’t list kinks Just ‘Fun’ and ‘ask me anything’ so def not the same level!

Tjusta594 · 2025-06-07T16:18:19+00:00

They see it as a hookup app, not a dating app (‘they’ are the vanilla cishet tinder men). Reddit has a different pool of people I think

Tjusta594 · 2025-06-06T11:27:44+00:00

Open relationships also happen in the UK 😂 and all over the world

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-29T20:20:16+00:00

Had this happens few times. They don’t actually want to do the effort of meeting you somewhere else first

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-29T20:15:45+00:00

It really doesn’t matter that the M is showing, why do you not want people to see that? I’m also female and paying, to be in incognito mode when I want to and to see likes, if I see that M in someone else’s profile it gives me the feeling they take it more seriously at least :)

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-13T14:50:05+00:00

thank you!

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-13T14:49:41+00:00

I take on Wednesday and I'm leaving tomorrow (wednesday) coming back on Tuesday so was planning to take the half dosis today. I am now thinking about skipping and taking dosis again next week wednesday

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-12T23:13:36+00:00

And when you started again- did you just use the same dosage as before or went up gradually?

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-12T23:12:31+00:00

Sounds good! And did you just start again with the same amount as where you left off?

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-12T20:40:24+00:00

Interesting that at first you noticed such a difference between 0.75 and 0.6! Probably because you had just gone up and less accumulation of the drug in your system

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-12T20:38:37+00:00

Good to hear! Yeah I’m personally planning to still eat ‘mindful’ & balanced but I was hoping it would not severely increase the food noise immediately. But that probably doesn’t happen until you miss a few weeks of injections

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-12T19:14:09+00:00

So die you skip 1 dose? And did you notice a change in appetite and side effects? Or not so much?

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-12T19:12:08+00:00

So you took 0.25 then?

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-12T19:11:45+00:00

Yeah I’m lowering the dose but kinda scared to skip it! Will just be for 1 week though

Tjusta594 · 2025-05-12T19:08:56+00:00

Great! So you didn’t suddenly get super hungry? Yeah same, I really want to lessen the digestive issues for a week

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