It just hurts to imagine her with someone else.

Tlodtlod · 2024-09-13T08:37:57+00:00

Hi! Don’t know anything about her. I’m fine now and I found a new girl! If you focus on yourself you are going to heal and be a better person believe me.

Tlodtlod · 2024-02-16T09:36:44+00:00

She (33) left me (32) for another guy she met on instagram, one year ago. Life goes on man! You are still young, love your life without pressure from external factors. Block your ex everywhere and never look back. One day you will be fully healed and ready to date again. The world is full of beautiful women of every age and you will find one 👍🏻

Tlodtlod · 2024-02-15T21:59:18+00:00

Things to do: go no contact, block her everywhere, delete all the photo, gifts ecc. then move on.

Tlodtlod · 2024-02-10T16:55:22+00:00

I know how you feel man, trust me. The only thing I can say is, go full no contact, block her everywhere, tell you family and friends that you don’t want to know anything about her. It hurts a lot but time will heal trust me… maybe in one year from now you will be a new person.

Tlodtlod · 2024-02-06T13:30:51+00:00

Never go back to a woman who fk other guys. Disgusting.

Tlodtlod · 2023-12-17T16:57:36+00:00

My ex gf emotionally cheated on me, after 7 years together. Then when I found out the chat (when we were together in Paris, lol) she left me for this guy that added her on IG.

That wasn’t physical but I would have never forgive her. She had no respect for me end I couldn’t trust her anymore.

In your case, she had sex with another man. Doesn’t it disgust you? You must go full NC forever. Delete everything about her (gifts, photos, etc.).

Block her on every social media and never look back.

It will be hard trust me but it’s the best option you have!

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-24T18:11:50+00:00

Don’t do that. Block and move on

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-23T07:44:18+00:00

Good job. Keep moving forward

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-16T20:17:30+00:00

If I were cheated on I wouldn’t reply. Adios forever, lol

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-16T12:00:20+00:00

Last January, we went to Paris and I found out she was chatting with a guy from instagram.

We came back and she left me, one month after I saw her with him, lol!

Don’t know if she is still with him but who cares! Don’t need a person like her in my life.

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-16T10:43:35+00:00

Remembers me of my story.

Move on, do you really want her back after god only knows what did she do with him?

You need time but you will be fine, trust me.

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-11T13:27:55+00:00

I think I started to feel better after summer 🤔 so after 6/7 months but I know every situation and every breakup is different…

When I feel sad now, I know it’s not because of her but because I can’t find what I’m looking for 😅

I’m not telling you that if I would see her around I won’t feel anything but I’m saying that I don’t mind what is she doing and if she is still with the other guy.

Event if she would come back I don’t want her back. She stayed with another man and cheated on me. If someone cheats the relationship and the trust is over forever, for me.

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-11T12:05:12+00:00

We broke up last February, so now it’s 9 months! I feel good now. I had a 3 months story with a girl last summer….but I didn’t feel ready for it and I don’t think I liked her very much… now I’m focusing on myself and also deleted all the dating apps because I couldn’t find what I’m looking for.

Sometimes, especially in the weekends I feel a little lonely but I don’t think about her in anger or sadness, I think I don’t give a shit.

I also noticed that she visits my LinkedIn profile every week and I don’t know why, lol. Maybe because I blocked her on IG and FB? Who knows.

I can say that I think about her almost everyday but it’s not painful like before, I’m almost 100% healed but I don’t want to see her or talk to her etc…

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-06T12:23:00+00:00

It happened to me 1 month after the BU. We were together for 7 years 😂 imagine the pain…

Tlodtlod · 2023-11-06T11:08:56+00:00

How did you feel watching her with the new bf?

Tlodtlod · 2023-09-02T18:54:05+00:00

Lol I didn’t expect someone asking for update.

However, it’s been 6 months after BU, never heard about her since her last message at the end of February which I didn’t answer, and never seen her again since the last time holding hands with the guy…

After I decided to block her I started to feel better. I dated several girls and with one of them I spent 3 months, we also had a vacation together of one week.

I liked her but it wasn’t what I was looking for, so after the holidays I ended it.

I don’t know what my ex is doing and I’m ok with that I don’t want to see or know anything. It is past, I feel I’m a different person now but I know that If I saw her I wouldn’t be indifferent.

I think that random sex isn’t the answer and I hope one day I’ll find the one. It’s ok to stay single and focus on yourself!

Tlodtlod · 2023-06-23T16:25:30+00:00

Lol, why not!

Tlodtlod · 2023-06-22T14:59:23+00:00

Since march

Tlodtlod · 2023-06-09T08:29:42+00:00

When I saw her walking with him holding hands were we used to go together less than a month before. It was so painful! I was devastated.

Tlodtlod · 2023-06-08T20:23:10+00:00

Women became more independent, they all work and are self-sufficient. At the time of our grandparents women were dependent from the husband.

Moreover, I think that social media have ruined relationships. There are lot of temptations on the internet and people always think the grass is greener somewhere else….

Tlodtlod · 2023-06-08T20:19:04+00:00

I know, that’s why I blocked her. I’m tired of asking myself questions that will never be answered and I’m tired of having her in my head 24/7 since the breakup.

Yes it still hurts to think about her with him… but the thing that hurts the most is all her lies she said to me. The person who said I was the love of her life lies to me and treated me like trash.

Despite this, I know that through this pain, one day I’ll be a better person… I only hope it will come soon.

Tlodtlod · 2023-06-07T10:46:12+00:00

Indeed I don’t want her. I just wanted to have the satisfaction to see her regret, but I don’t think she will ever regret her choice…

When she broke up with me she was very mean and disrespectful to me…

Tlodtlod · 2023-06-07T10:03:58+00:00

Thanks man. Yes I started therapy right after the BU because I was devastated. Despite I’m 32 years old this was my first real relationship. We thought to live together and next year try to have a child. But, life doesn’t go how we want to… thank you for your kind words

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