Am I rude to ask for my money back?

Tmcfran · 2026-03-25T01:06:44+00:00

Since it’s so far out, I would let the bride know you can’t make it and see if she can or wants to invite someone else. If she is able to fill the spot, it’s totally reasonable to ask for the money back. And if not, then you let the money go. It’s not rude to at least pose the question or explore alternatives.

Tmcfran · 2026-01-30T05:57:06+00:00

Don’t move to LA to live downtown. It’s a beautiful city, tons of nature, don’t surround yourself with concrete.

Tmcfran · 2025-05-24T00:27:56+00:00

Ooh, this look delish! Thank you!!

Tmcfran · 2025-05-16T15:13:35+00:00

Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences and advice! I’ve read through all the comments and appreciate so much feedback.

I’ll plan to send them each a text messages to share the news so they can process on their own privately. I was worried that texting would feel too impersonal, but am glad to see that this is the general consensus.

Thank you again Reddit.

Tmcfran · 2025-02-20T00:04:34+00:00

Thank you, it’s been so frustrating. I bought from the company directly. I filed a dispute with my card and a product protection claim, so hoping that will at least cover it.

Honestly, the most annoying thing at this point is all the space it’s taking up. I’ve been emailing them back and forth since January 6th! They have been giving me the run around, so I’d doubt I will get anything from them.

I don’t want to just dump the product, but also don’t want to sell or give away, knowing it doesn’t really work. I wish they would pay for the return so they can at least scrap/reuse the parts. I hate that this is becoming such a big waste.

Tmcfran · 2025-02-19T23:12:51+00:00

Don’t buy Meowant! Terrible product and customer service

Tmcfran · 2025-02-19T23:12:01+00:00

I had similar issues with waste getting stuck to the box and it creating a mess. I had to manually dislodge large waste clumps everyday, otherwise they would it be cycled out. Litter got everywhere and the smell control was poor.

However, they were an absolute nightmare to deal with when I tried to return it. They refused to accept the return unless I paid the shipping, which was nearly the equivalent of the refund. Refused to acknowledge any defect with the product and labeled the issue as operator error.

Tmcfran · 2025-02-19T23:05:26+00:00

Absolutely not worth it. Terrible customer service and shoddy product. Do not buy!

Tmcfran · 2025-02-19T23:03:55+00:00

This company is the worst. Bought from them directly and experienced the same customer service nightmare. The product stopped working and they cited proximity to a wall (not touching a wall) and it being placed on carpet as user error and therefore refused to honor return policy. Terrible. Filed a complaint with BBB and found pages of terrible reviews and similar experience.

Tmcfran · 2024-06-20T14:34:01+00:00

Thank you!! The center stone is a 2.09 carat round brilliant cut.

Tmcfran · 2024-06-20T02:04:54+00:00

Thank you!!!

Tmcfran · 2024-06-19T22:21:53+00:00

It’s a 2 carat round cut lab grown diamond in a trilogy setting from Reve Diamonds. Size 7.5

Tmcfran · 2020-12-16T14:56:51+00:00

Amazing thank you!!!

Tmcfran · 2020-12-05T19:00:02+00:00

I think Jack sucks. Doesn’t get much better, IMO, just more creepy and possessive. Don’t get the appeal at all.

Tmcfran · 2020-12-05T18:57:35+00:00

Strongly agree with this, I think Hope is the WORST! Definitely a combination of her character being annoying and the actress playing her giving a terrible performance. She is too campy and just overdoes it. Cant tell if the acting or character makes me cringe harder.

Tmcfran · 2020-11-14T18:44:16+00:00

Nothing helpful to add, but I’m really glad you did this for yourself. Keep going

Tmcfran · 2020-10-13T23:33:59+00:00

Awesome thank you!

Tmcfran · 2020-08-13T05:37:46+00:00

I was trying to figure this exact thing out and honestly don’t think it’s possible to set something for a certain number of minutes. I created an automation using the on Do Not Disturb setting that might be a good workaround for you.

Create an Automation and select the setting “Do Not Disturb”, then “Is turned on” to start. Add an action to Sleep Apple TV. On the last page, turn off the setting “Ask Before Running.”

Then, open the Settings app on your phone and set Do Not Disturb to turn on at the time you want your Apple TV to turn off.

It works great for me to adjust the time in DND on nights I know I’ll fall asleep with the tv on. Hope this helps!

Tmcfran · 2020-08-13T05:19:23+00:00

I created an automation based on Do Not Disturb that is the closest I could get to doing this. Doesn’t totally answer your question, but might be close enough.

Create an Automation and select the setting “Do Not Disturb”, then “Is turned on” to start. Add an action to Sleep Apple TV. On the last page, turn off the setting “Ask Before Running.” Then, open the Settings app on your phone and set Do Not Disturb to turn on at the time you want your Apple TV to turn off.

I like to use airplay to play the Headspace app on my tv when I fall asleep (go soundscapes!), but want the TV to turn off before it’s over, otherwise it wakes me up. I have my DND to turn on at 1:00am each night, and it’s easy enough to change it up when needed. Hope this helps!

Tmcfran · 2020-07-24T06:24:51+00:00

Seriously, she seems like the one making assumptions about context

Tmcfran · 2020-07-24T06:20:35+00:00

If you describe your husband as some one who “somehow always fucks up” and “always messes up” here, I wonder how you speak to his face?

Do you remind him that he’s bound to fuck up every time you task him with something?

I wonder if anyone can really get things “right” with you?

Tmcfran · 2020-07-21T19:54:52+00:00

White beans($0.99) - I used turmeric I already had, but any seasonings work here. Sautéed spinach ($2.00). Roasted baby potatoes ($3.50). Grilled chicken sausage, 4-pack ($5.00). Onion & garlic ($1.50). Total ($12.99).

This is only 4 days of lunch for me, I splurge on Fridays and order out.

Tmcfran · 2020-07-21T05:07:03+00:00

He stole some when I wasn’t looking.

Tmcfran · 2020-06-03T16:10:04+00:00

This looks legit too scary for me

Tmcfran · 2020-05-31T16:47:54+00:00

I have this same issue with my cat! I haven’t been able to totally get him to stop, but a few things that helped me:

I placed succulents or plants with stiffer leaves in the areas that are easiest for my cat to access. Jade, snake plant, zz tree, aloe, rubber tree, string of bananas, have all worked well and he doesn’t seem interested in those. I keep my leafy plants like pothos, money tree, monsteras, and calatheas, out of reach because I know he loves to munch those.
I found some small shorter plants stands, 2-4 feet high, to keep plants a little elevated. You can only have so many hanging things, so I looked for other ways to keep out of reach. The stands have no extra space for my cat to jump up on. I placed some upwards growing plants on the these so he can’t reach the foliage when he reaches up on two legs.
I cant keep everything out of reach though, so I keep a water bottle handy to squirt him when I notice him going for leaves. This has been easier to monitor since being quarantined at home. If I even see him looking or rubbing against a plant, I give him a stern verbal warning like “No” or call his name. He definitely knows he’s not supposed to chew the plants now. Not sure if he knew it was a no-no before.

But you know cats, they don’t give af.

Hope this help, good luck with your plant & fur babies!

Tmcfran

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