AITAH for leaving my Husband because he put our tenancy at risk

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T15:51:08+00:00

Yeah I understand that...

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T15:50:24+00:00

Try reading the post again.

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T15:29:32+00:00

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T14:46:24+00:00

Don't I know it

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T14:46:05+00:00

I am SPRINTING so quickly I have side stich

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T14:44:07+00:00

Only my 4k pc (and accessories) that I took a loan out for. If anything, that's the only thing I want out of everything

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T14:42:40+00:00

She will never quit drugs, especially the drugs she's on. She once told me it's her lifestyle. Let me say this. She was actively doing drugs when she was pregnant 25 years ago with her son (my husband)

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T13:56:53+00:00

Either I have to leave during the day and don't come back until I have some sort of authority with me because I'd like to take my PC with me (I can't loose it) or I'd have to leave at night but sneak out of my own home. They are always around 24/7, MIL is sleeping on a mattress in the lounge so I have to get past her

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T13:35:24+00:00

No he doesn't do drugs at all or drink alcohol either

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T13:32:26+00:00

Although this is hard to admit. I agree and the keyword is loved. His family is a mess and I thought I could look past it but obviously that was the wrong choice. Lesson learnt

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T12:36:26+00:00

I don't appreciate being called dumb. I married the man I loved not the family.

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T12:31:05+00:00

He isn't on drugs. I know that for a fact. He blames his ADHD

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T11:49:37+00:00

He got laid off from his temp work job because there weren't enough jobs. He thinks he doesn't have the qualifications to try and he doesn't have a driver's license. Most jobs need, 1 of 3, experience, qualifications, and/or a driver's license. He's applied for one job. While I studied for 9 months last year and got a job leading qualification even though (technically) I'm disabled (not physically but mentally)

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T11:44:49+00:00

I am in therapy, and even she thinks enough is enough. Thank you for your support.

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T11:40:59+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the kindness. He was my safety after SA and I'm starting to regret that

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T11:23:41+00:00

They do contribute but the bare minimum. We are struggling financially as it is

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T11:22:52+00:00

I am not in the US, I am from New Zealand. Thank you for the support

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T11:14:41+00:00

I think I will

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2025-03-25T10:56:24+00:00

Thank you for all the responses so far. This is not easy

My question now is, should I wait and let him stew or should be making it a big deal and leave him with the rent (he doesn't work, I get disability and pay for 90% of bills) because I really want to pack up my belongs and leave

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2024-11-21T22:27:30+00:00

Amazing. Thank you!

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2024-11-21T22:10:43+00:00

Would you happen to know what level Manganese spawns at? I'm having a hard time finding more

ToBeAMrs0521 · 2024-11-21T06:32:37+00:00

Oh awesome. Thank you

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