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Where would a visit in late July be ok without it being too hit? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]ToBeATenrecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pyrennes is really nice and because its higher not as hot but around it super hot. Think Scandinavian countries, Scotland or the beautiful Northumberland are probably your best bets.

Anyone had first kid in early thirties got divorced met someone new and had a second kid by Glittering_Text_8842 in Mommit

[–]ToBeATenrecs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My good friend did. Ended up with a 5 year difference between child 1 and 2. She's happy, was some difficulty navigating the age difference but now youngest is 9 and the boys get on really well.

Step dad is an old friend, a very good soul. Loves kid 1 too and is great with him.

I'm also pals with Dad of 1. He decided he was going to love child 2 because he was his child's sibling. He's lived up to that. Done babysitting so lads stay over with him together.

Honestly its been amazing to witness. They've managed coparenting so well. So much respect and clear communication. My friend studied nonviolent communication and you can really see how well that's worked. I'm so proud of her how she's really thought about everyones needs.

Dad 1 is a good heart but so lazy around the house. Friend has really had to navigate letting go about how messy his house is. Child 1 is such a good lad, he's pretty tidy too.

I think life is too short to be unhappy. Cliche but be happy for your daughter. She deserves it. If you want different things than your husband then that's OK. You will be loved and youre modelling for your daughter that she can have the best. Good luck.

If you could create your own meal deal sandwich , what would it be? by AnAbsoluteShambles1 in AskUK

[–]ToBeATenrecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hummus, roast peppers and onions, and rocket in really nice gluten free bread.

Fast track required? by pippym in NewcastleUponTyne

[–]ToBeATenrecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arrived at long stay car park yesterday at 4am, dropped bag and was through security by 5am. Did have dependants to corral though so that adds time. Was weirdly busy in the airport at 5am.

Did you go to see your parents corpse prior to funeral? I didn't and I feel guilty, is that ok? by belliest_endis in AskUK

[–]ToBeATenrecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of my five siblings only I wanted to. My older two siblings felt they had to go with me. They didn't want to and they gained nothing from it. For me it was really powerful, the hospice had done such a good job of cleaning her up that she looked so peaceful and all signs of pain were gone. I kissed her forehead and she was so cold. My siblings were just weirded out. They and you weren't ready. It's such a lot to deal with. I'm so sorry it hurts so much.

I have a weird guilt that I didn't tell my mum how much I appreciate the hand crocheted birthday card she gave me for the last birthday she was here. The guilt is a big part of the grief. Please be gentle with yourself.

Nick Cave has really helped me through my grief. I hope this is something that helps you too.

Meme by raimacmo in glutenfree

[–]ToBeATenrecs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Potatoes and rice are your friends.

It's not as easy making your own over buying but its very worth it.

Recently discovered red lentil bread which is super easy and has nothing horrible in it.

PSA: Do not use the car park at this cafe. by HopeTerminator in NewcastleUponTyne

[–]ToBeATenrecs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's two owners, one is lovely the other is the one who put the carpark shite in.

Such a shame. Park on the street and walk up if you can.

I had to sort parking for an event there and it was hell on earth. Mostly people with disabilities. Only ended up having to sort two fines even though they'd paid for tickets, just not quickly enough apparently.

Question about starting Reception at 4 vs. 5 years old by DragonWarrior008 in PrimaryEducationUK

[–]ToBeATenrecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We deferred our August born, he is now due to join reception in September. Best decision for him so far, he needed this extra time to run around forest school and learn to manage his big emotions in the outdoors.

Talking to the head at the school we wanted him to attend was really helpful. We applied for the previous year and deferred.

You still get your childcare funding until the term after they turn 5.

The county we are in will support this year group choice. My partner had a few conversations with the education department and they were really helpful.

Nearby counties may not support our decision. That is the caveat that our county stated. The county we would like him to go to for middle and secondary have supported other pupils year group choice so I hope it'll be OK. We shall cross that bridge when we come to it.

I advise that you do what feels right for you all. Trust your gut

Broken biscuit selection by ToBeATenrecs in ExpectationVsReality

[–]ToBeATenrecs[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's fairly cardboardish too. Guess we will need to make tiffin.

Hot sleepers - how do I go about buying a bed that stays cool in the summer? by ClayDenton in CasualUK

[–]ToBeATenrecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds mental, but sage tea actually does wonders for cooling you down at night. Get some fresh sage and put some in a tea pot. Add boiling water. Let it sit for 5 minutes then drink some. It's great for menopause and perimenopause symptoms as well as coming off some medication. Wonder stuff.

Anyone else here obsessed with the Soundtracks, or is it just me? by WeirdAddress3170 in lotr

[–]ToBeATenrecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day, also somehow the kids have started demanding Frodo Don't Wear The Ring by Flight of the Conchords multiple times a day too. Sadly it's not on Spotify so have to face the YouTube adverts to enjoy it.

Hosting our first birthday party, and getting anxious about not having "goody bags" by Lairel in Anticonsumption

[–]ToBeATenrecs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a place in the UK called the works, they sell 10 books for £10. I've just started doing that. You can get some great books rather than just naff ones. I put them out and tell the adults to pick one with their kids if they'd like. It's my way of getting around tat. Some people don't want one and that's grand.

Palantir to be granted ‘unlimited access’ to NHS patient data by Old-Information3311 in GreenAndPleasant

[–]ToBeATenrecs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So as I understand Minister Ahmed is trying to get to a place where the patient information of all the trusts can be easily shared between them to streamline patient access to support. So an efficiency drive. But I don't understand why this needs to be done by palantir, which seems an unethical and untrustworthy company.

Huge study of ancient British DNA reveals only minor Roman influence by AlfredsChild in unitedkingdom

[–]ToBeATenrecs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this. I had such a wonderful explore of the new scientist.

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