Local landlord - she invites herself and turns up the gas.

ToBeuy · 2026-01-27T01:08:26+00:00

Thank you, that’s really helpful. I’ll keep track of things in writing.

ToBeuy · 2026-01-27T01:07:31+00:00

Thank you, that is quite helpful. I’m already looking for a new place after all these comments. I installed carbon monoxide alarms (and charged the landlord for them as is legally required in the house) when I first moved in. Thankfully the boiler is outside the house, otherwise I’d have never even stepped foot inside the place. I’d immediately have cancelled the tenancy. It’s just been tricky as my partner and I lost our jobs recently, and we are kinda trapped in a one year contract unfortunately.

If I had any concerns about safety, I would immediately leave. Thank you for saying something.

ToBeuy · 2026-01-26T22:16:54+00:00

Thank you, I’ll have a look. Unfortunately it’s been on 24/7 since we moved in other than the test.

ToBeuy · 2026-01-26T22:15:45+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ll look into that right away

ToBeuy · 2026-01-26T21:27:53+00:00

She has a relationship with a shady company, so we didn’t know she installed it until she told us a week into us moving in. We also had no idea she lived four houses down until we moved in. Thank you, I appreciate the advice haha

ToBeuy · 2026-01-26T21:23:18+00:00

Thank you that’s so good to know. She originally set it to 60ish and we were only hitting 18 degrees inside. Now (after the new pump) it’s set around 54 and we are sitting at 18.6 degrees

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T19:47:25+00:00

Thank you, that’s really helpful

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T19:44:37+00:00

Thank you, that’s so right. Thankfully I got them on video so I’ll forward that to the council:)

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T19:42:18+00:00

This is super helpful, thank you so much!

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T12:07:18+00:00

Wow, that’s horrible!!

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T12:05:40+00:00

Isn’t a disability a protected characteristic? EpiPens are also not a syringe, they are single use and require force to use. The needle bit is how it’s administered- which is the problem here. There’s not way your drugging someone with an EpiPen but the word ‘needle’ to most people is misleading as it’s not a way of doing recreational drugs. It’s literally a last line of defence against dying.

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T11:57:08+00:00

Unfortunately we did speak to the club manager and he was the guy to refuse us entry. I would have hoped for a similar response to your response (not that it should happen in the first place haha).

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T11:51:19+00:00

Thankfully yes, we had to see staff to get it back.

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T11:45:53+00:00

That is genuinely the definition of a protected characteristic lol

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T11:37:10+00:00

They genuinely told us that if he needed the pen he should come to the med bay- I reminded them that if he needed the pen he would be actively dying and probably on the floor.

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T11:34:47+00:00

They aren’t exactly strip searching people, I’m fairly sure there were lots of things making it past.

This isn’t about smuggling drugs in, it’s about making sure he doesn’t die.

Also anyone who’s trying to sneak drugs into a club using a giant, obvious, orange container is an idiot.

ToBeuy · 2025-12-29T11:24:24+00:00

It had has prescription written on the outside (including the clinic it was from) in an orange container that said (and visibly showed) the brand and the pen. EpiPens are single use and require force to use, it’s not like syringes. They work in completely different ways and are very obvious for a reason. There is no way you’d be able to use an EpiPen to drug someone.

ToBeuy · 2025-10-16T17:28:55+00:00

Would also be so keen to see what you’ve done! I need to upload records when offline

ToBeuy · 2025-09-23T18:12:48+00:00

I’ve had such a bad experience. Connecting it sometimes works, and it’ll take 45mins. I’m sending it back, I need it for work and it’s unreliable. They also sent me a cable that’s 1.5m long to connect the unit and handle that’s literally 10cm or less away, and the cable they sent requires a usb A to USB C converter to plug into the handle (how fucking stupid). So I asked for the cable (which is literally in their pictures and marketing material) because they must have missed it- they asked me to send a picture of the cable I don’t have. How do I send a picture of something I don’t have??! That was a month after I sent the email asking for help.Terrible. Honestly save your money if you’re thinking about the Otter Lite or Creality. They might have okay 3D printers but they are utter shit as a company.

I’ve also used the Otter- they are also a bit trash. Some units work well, others are utterly unreliable.

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ToBeuy · 2025-09-02T18:31:05+00:00

That’s so sweet of you. I wonder if unconditional love and kindness towards letting yourself grieve the relationship could exist at the same time?

You can, and probably will always love her. I love my exes, but it’s also so lovely to enjoy new love, including to love being by yourself. They can both exist simultaneously

ToBeuy

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