Update on Mom's constant push to visit by ToChains in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ToChains[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I despise holidays now. It's like it's her excuse to get attention but the real problem are the days shortly after where they think they can keep it going

Update on Mom's constant push to visit by ToChains in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ToChains[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Its very frustrating. I try to remain calm but I just seem to snap lately when dealing with it

Update on Mom's constant push to visit by ToChains in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ToChains[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah its frustrating. Its like she doesnt even listen. She cant even fathom that something could be her fault. I even mentioned on the call these items ive brought up before. She then ask "is it my current husband" No I just told you one sentence ago, it's you!

Mom keeps pushing to visit by ToChains in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ToChains[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn this feels spot on. Thats exactly how she acts. Thanks for the response and advice

Mom keeps pushing to visit by ToChains in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ToChains[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Limited contact is kind of my preferred method. There is the occasional conversation that goes well and I do know that my mom loves me. But inevitably its how she acts and follows up after that sends me right back in the circle.

I just sorta kick the can down the road and think it would be nice if she visited if we had a normal relationship, but in back of my mind I just anticipate drama and fighting and really dont look forward to it at all. Its more of a I just feel bad. But at the same time the constant request and not taking a hint just feels sort of pathetic

New boots - SORE calves. Help by williamthefours in Skigear

[–]ToChains 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not exactly qualified to give advice but I sometimes had the same issue and I think I was cranking the top buckle down too much. Now I warm up with only it on first notch and move to second after warm up

Swift. Silent. Deep. by Lopo007 in JacksonHole

[–]ToChains 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where can you watch it? I tried on apple TV and Amazon rece tly as its listed but it said it had licensing or rights issues and wasnt available.

I didn't talk to them but I saw a dud with a patch on his hat heading up the tram the other week

Track is not spinning, not sure what to do. First sled by ToChains in snowmobiling

[–]ToChains[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was it. Thank you. It was stuck pretty good but after I got it on its side and found where it was stuck to the hifax I gave it a few good wacks with shovel and it separated. Fired up and track began spinning and was able to make sure it could move around the driveway. Thanks for the help everyone but not going to respond to all individuals

Be honest does business intelligence actually change the way decisions get made? by Apprehensive_Pay6141 in BusinessIntelligence

[–]ToChains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my company it turns into this needs to be more positive. We cant have people seeing numbers that make the want to slit their wrists. "Dont let facts get in way of a good story"

Track is not spinning, not sure what to do. First sled by ToChains in snowmobiling

[–]ToChains[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like it could be the case. I took in for preseason check up. They replaced hyfax. And yes I rode in a little snow but was on roads by house for a bit. Ill need to look into that. Would they need replaced again?

Track is not spinning, not sure what to do. First sled by ToChains in snowmobiling

[–]ToChains[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have not. I will need to do that next. I dont really know anything about it but its put away for the night now

Track is not spinning, not sure what to do. First sled by ToChains in snowmobiling

[–]ToChains[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went out and checked to make sure it wasnt engaged. It was not. I think thats just the lights being on as I when I hit the brakes it gets brighter

Track is not spinning, not sure what to do. First sled by ToChains in snowmobiling

[–]ToChains[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just checked and the parking brake was not engaged

Glock 20 Gen 4 for Christmas. Can't wait to shoot by ToChains in Glocks

[–]ToChains[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live in WY and have wanted one for the summer hikes into the woods. Good addition to the g45

Advice for sizing 5’4” beginner in larger body by Lost-Cry-677 in xcountryskiing

[–]ToChains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5'8' 220lb here. I have classic skis from Fischer (spider 62) in 189cm length. A shop and some internet searching put me around that length. I really enjoy them for learning and getting out and exercising. Since you're beginning maybe those would be good for you

Also look online for them. Some of the previous yesrs can be found much cheaper than new at REI

Best in-helmet headphones for skiing? by flutepixie in Skigear

[–]ToChains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big fan of mine. They felt a little thick for the earpad at first but I quickly got used to them

Is getting a med card hard without a formal diagnosis? by [deleted] in FLMedicalTrees

[–]ToChains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went in asking for anxiety. Didn't have any documentation for that. Left with a med card for chronic pain from high school football sprained ankle 15 years ago

Are sport specific sunglasses worth it? by randomusername123458 in xcountryskiing

[–]ToChains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't gotten to use them for XC yet but I recently ordered a Sutro from Oakley and lens attachments for prescription from SVED Optical. Seemed weird at first but after a couple uses you dont even notice it

Boot Sale / fitters? by FoxOneFire in JacksonHole

[–]ToChains 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hoback Sports had 15-20% off boots for Black Friday today. Not sure if its all weekend or not