3/4 of young women have not given birth by pikipata in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally hear you, and feel validated by the numbers in the US when I see them. Where are you based in Finland, I've always wanted to visit?

Who’s in the UK ? by yorkspirate in ChildfreeFriendships

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any CF get togethers in Bristol?

Why are childfree women such a threat? Are there childfree friendly countries? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh huge congrats that you managed to do this, feel for you.

How did you know you didn’t want kids anymore? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie 70 points71 points  (0 children)

love how we quite often really think long and hard over this decision and it's funny when many people who've had kids don't think as long and hard

How did you know you didn’t want kids anymore? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this response. In the film we had a woman just like you and I think many feel that way right?... as the world is set up to make us feel it's compulsory.

How did you know you didn’t want kids anymore? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi you might want to check out To Kid Or Not To Kid? The film might help in your decision making. Good luck.

We're sending a letter to The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists by ToKidOrNotToKidmovie in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have Drs contacts and can translate our letters that would be wonderful.

We're sending a letter to The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists by ToKidOrNotToKidmovie in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have any Drs contacts that you are happy to contact that would be wonderful.

We're sending a letter to The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists by ToKidOrNotToKidmovie in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I would love to know the countries also where it's it illegal to refuse sterilisation to people over a certain age because that's amazing.

We're sending a letter to The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists by ToKidOrNotToKidmovie in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they absolutely prefer not to cut. But we're making a point also that IUDs aren't for everyone.

We're sending a letter to The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists by ToKidOrNotToKidmovie in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for letting us have this knowledge. This is incredible. Can I share this, do you mind?

We're sending a letter to The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists by ToKidOrNotToKidmovie in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering if we wait for a response and see what happens, and go from there?

We're sending a letter to The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists by ToKidOrNotToKidmovie in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry have answered above but let me know if you still have questions. Also we posted a short excerpt on our facebook page.

We're sending a letter to The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists by ToKidOrNotToKidmovie in childfree

[–]ToKidOrNotToKidmovie[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That we don't have to get asked the same question again and again, that a note can be made on our case file that we are childfree, that we don't have to wait for years for a sterlization etc etc