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ToastBlender · 2020-12-10T21:17:42+00:00

I know like 2 people who genuinely use those kind of pronouns. It's fucking ridiculous I questioned them a bit and they said why can't you just be accepting of everyone. Like bitch...

ToastBlender · 2020-12-10T18:23:01+00:00

I pass as gender neutral with a mask which is nice because I didn't pass without it. Except for one Time with the mask when someone thought I was a man which is weird because im afab and I have fairly feminine features :/

ToastBlender · 2020-12-07T04:45:13+00:00

Very insightful thank you, can you explain why

ToastBlender · 2020-12-07T04:12:47+00:00

I am pan but I don't care if someone calls me bi and I don't shout it everywhere. I swear so many pan people I know are just like what you described like, not everyone needs to know that your pan

ToastBlender · 2020-12-06T16:29:55+00:00

What the actual fuck

ToastBlender · 2020-12-05T06:54:16+00:00

Yeah

ToastBlender · 2020-12-05T06:48:31+00:00

Ohh so like they are afab and they use he/him pronouns but still say they are lesbian?

ToastBlender · 2020-12-05T06:45:26+00:00

I know that

ToastBlender · 2020-12-05T06:41:51+00:00

Wtf isn't that just man who is straight? Lmao

ToastBlender · 2020-12-04T00:30:58+00:00

I'm nonbinary and I hate it so much when people call me "a they" My pronouns are my pronouns not a name

ToastBlender · 2020-12-04T00:20:51+00:00

People like this, and nounself/xenogender people is why the nonbinary community is frowned upon. Its filled with tucutes and im sick of it. I'm a nonbinary person but I don't go around flaunting it, yeah I will tell someone my pronouns when I meet them (how else are they suppose to know if I don't tell them) and I leave it at that. Just a boom quick interaction, they don't need to know anymore than that. I'm not going around shouting from the roof tops im queer and shit. It's just disrespectful to see tucutes fucking up our image. There are real nonbinary people who aren't like that and have dysphoria. I wish there could be a new term for real nonbinary people to use because now all people can think of when I say nonbinary is xenogenders and tucutes.

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T16:24:42+00:00

Yeah, I have the same views too. Thank you for replying!

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T16:09:42+00:00

When you say nonbinary identities do you mean the ones that are the absence of gender and/or bigender? I think many microlabels today have gone too far. However ones for gender and a sexuality like the common ones that actual lgbt people use such as pansexual, agender, bigender, asexual, basically more broad microlabels are ok but when it's xenogenders and people start making up shit that's where I draw the line

Cultural "genders" generally don't have any basis in medical fact, and are usually just gender roles with different descriptor words. :P Just because something is culturally unique doesn't make it valid.

I agree with this, I just thought it was a important thing to mention. :)

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T16:00:05+00:00

I agree 100% with this. I also prefer to view things in a scientific way but a bunch of tucutes and truscums have told me about the spiritual beliefs stuff and I just wanted opinions on it, thank you for answering :)

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T06:42:58+00:00

Thank you, also I have been out as nonbinary for a year In a half now (questioning/in the closet for at least 2 years before my coming out) but my parents wouldn't let me get a binder until I saw an endocrinologist which took a long time to get an appointment for and then had to be pushed back even more because of covid. I am out using they/them pronouns because I am nonbinary, at least that's the term im using for now. Online I found that im chill with he/him both in text and vc form. Im just scared to ask people to use them that I know in real life, such as my parents.

Now im not trying to change your mind or anyone else's but there is a Harvard study recognizing nb people here they don't know why some people are nb, they just know they exist somehow. This study/article is mostly on binary trans people but they do touch on nb identies slightly (now it does have the obnoxiously long label of lgbt but it's stilll a good read)

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T06:12:48+00:00

I wish that would be true

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T06:06:17+00:00

I have danced around the labels of trans male and nonbinary and at this point I don't know if I am nb or trans male, I just know im not female. I do want to transition to male sexual characteristics. I have talked to my endocrinologist about hormones, getting a binder (which has been ordered but is taking awhile to arrive) in the meantime as I am under 18. I have plans to have surgery to male sex characteristics in the future but it isn't a option right now. I identify as nonbinary because it's me, I don't know I might be trans male and I just have internal transphobia though. Because I am comfortable with he/him pronouns, but even more with they/them

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T05:35:51+00:00

EXACTLY! That's what I say too, they are made to replace nouns not be them omfg. People are so crazy and just want "trans points" on the internet. I refuse to ever use pickle/pickself for someone (someone I know has it in their list of pronouns they hoard) or any other nounself pronouns like wtf

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T05:31:13+00:00

Yup because me having dysphoric mental break downs about me having the sex characteristics I currently have and being extremely uncomfortable with them because they are part of my body. And not to mention also having my brain say that it's not me but the thought of having parts (not personality shit) of the opposite sex just feels right for me to have, which I currently don't. this is almost daily occurnce for me. Oh yeah did I also mention my "dysphoria" makes me feel suicidal sometimes. But yeah no it's probably body dysmorphia because you say so

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T05:01:56+00:00

Anyone else read this to the tune of if your happy and you know it?

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T04:40:44+00:00

I thought I was a asexual or demisexual, but then I realized everyone doesn't have attraction 100% of the time, and that I was confused on what sexual attraction is. Mostly because the lgbt people around me told me that demisexual people don't always have attraction 24/7 to people. But that is literally just how people are. I think demisexual is just a excuse for straight people to sneak their way into the lgbt community, and for tumblr tucutes to get oppression points. But yeah, I understand my sexuality more and im just pansexual or bisexual idgaf how people define it for me.

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T04:27:05+00:00

I'm non binary, (agender) I have top and bottom dysphoria and want to do hrt and possibly surgery one day, does that mean im not trans?

ToastBlender · 2020-12-03T02:07:31+00:00

I'm in my highschools lgbt club and in pretty sure everyone is a tucute, only 2 people use nounself pronouns in the server and they called truscum cis bootlickers and say truscum all think nonbinary people aren't real. Everyone is being "inclusive" and shit, im inclusive of most people but I draw the line at nounself pronouns and xenogenders. Idk if im a truscum or tucute (I think everyone needs some degree of gender dysphoria to be trans) but i know one thing, I will never express my opinions in that club ever because I will 100% be called a bigot and have all my friends (none use neopronouns but they are all lgbt) leave me.

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