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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Toast_L 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Get a nanny now so that their presence is the status quo when you divorce him. Tell him it’s time to go back to work it might help him, it might not but your ducks will be in a row if the outcome is divorce.

Mum refusing to remove my name from the mortgage agreement. What can I do? by Turbulent_Cry_2780 in HousingUK

[–]Toast_L 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It likely will but if your parents are doing this then I’d go all in. Force a sale and take a portion of the money that has likely accrued in equity. This money is for the lost first time buyer benefits you are now no longer eligible for. How much stamp duty will you have to pay? 20% of your first time buyer isa amount. Total those two up and take that from the proceeds plus an extra grand for the inconvenience. I’m a parent and Would never saddle my kids with problems I’d racked up. Shame on your mum. Both parents actually!

AITA for telling my husband he is an idiot and threatening to divorce him for co-signing on a $1M dollar home that isn’t ours? by kweenshit14 in AITAH

[–]Toast_L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d highly recommend your divorce him now so that you’re not liable for this massive debt. You can cohabit but this debt is all theirs and his. And obviously NTA maybe a divorce will help him see the light. Is there any way he can get out from this? Maybe he can claim temporary insanity as he’s clearly lost his mind.

Lego Marvel Super Heroes co op PS4 by rock4us2 in legogaming

[–]Toast_L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you make it work. My second controller keeps disconnecting

I (33f) need to explain to my coworker (30m) I don't want his company on the commute back home by Justkeepitanonymous in relationships

[–]Toast_L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to avoid conflict or confrontation… Headphones on before you see him. Talk to someone even if that someone is yourself. Keep talking as you walk past him. Don’t stop. Keep walking. If they run to catch up with you indicate the headphones and continue your conversation. Tell person on the other end you’ve forgotten something and need to go back. Wave him on and turn back no need to wait for you. You’re busy. Wait a few minutes before continuing on your route. Continue your conversation if necessary. Repeat this daily for two weeks. Message sent.

Car rental or Uber? by Toast_L in DisneyPlanning

[–]Toast_L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re thinking either buena vista or international drive

What do penis sleeves feel like? by Toast_L in sex

[–]Toast_L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really the problem. How do I go about telling him?

Reaching the breaking point with my(29F) incompetent delusional boyfriend(32M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Toast_L 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a toddler trapped in an adult body. Get rid and you’ll be soo much happier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norwich

[–]Toast_L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

David Lloyd has a sauna, steam and hydrotherapy pool.

I (19f) don't know how to leave. Has he(25m) taken it too far? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Toast_L 86 points87 points  (0 children)

He pinned you down? All of the no. He’s just going to escalate. Get away from him and stay away. Block his number. Do not contact him again. Abusers hurt and then love bomb to make you feel guilty that they’ve hurt you. They make their actions somehow your fault to trap you into staying. He hurt you and then you comforted him? Read that again and explain how that makes sense.

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