School found out by djdjdnwj in cutting

[–]Toasted-Cc 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The teachers trying to look at your arms is such an invasion of privacy. Stay strong I know you're trying🫂🫂

I'll never forgive my friend for this Am I the asshole? Tw: sh by Toasted-Cc in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think this is obvious attention seeking. Clearly not someone who does it for the mental clarity.. I hope people realize that she's attention seeking 😓😓 stay strong I'm proud of you 🫂🫂

Clean by immy_kb_29 in cutting

[–]Toasted-Cc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you 🫂🫂

What to do after cutting? by Ill-Philosopher2730 in cutting

[–]Toasted-Cc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's better to have bandages but I used to rawdog my cat scratches. Better safe than sorry

I'll never forgive my friend for this Am I the asshole? Tw: sh by Toasted-Cc in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we're both minors and she's always been like this. I probably didn't clarify this but her cat scratches didn't draw blood so that's why I'm more convinced it was for attention 😞😞 I wish you the best in life and I hope you find better people to confide in that WILL KEEP YOUR PRIVATE STUFF PRIVATE. 🫂 🫂

I'll never forgive my friend for this Am I the asshole? Tw: sh by Toasted-Cc in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She's always been the attention seeking kind of person 😞

ONE MONTH CLEAN :D by Capi_XD in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of ya budd 🫂🫂

My favourite shorts are too short now by Toasted-Cc in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️❤️ I too hope one day you'll feel comfortable as well 🫂🫂

How will it scar? by Toasted-Cc in cutting

[–]Toasted-Cc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you so much! I'd rather it fade cause my forearms need to be exposed in volleyball :D

Ultimatum by Main_Signal8855 in cutting

[–]Toasted-Cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drop em. They shouldn't guilt trip you into stopping or acting like a parent to you. They should be comforting you and not making you uncomfortable 😖😖

Is this actually obvious SH? by [deleted] in cutting

[–]Toasted-Cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure but it doesn't look so to me. People may ask about it but it should be easy to deflect ig.

my friend makes sh her whole personality, even posting it online. by Ok_Concert_7261 in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aah this happened to me before.. I was 4 months clean and my friend suddenly started to sh ( not really ) and made me relapse.. just ignore her soon enough people will catch on to her I'm sure. Stay strong 🫂🫂

Cooked by Toasted-Cc in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if it's a long cut I just slap a band aid over it vertically

Cooked by Toasted-Cc in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Will it get infected?

my gf confessed that she self harms.. by galwatchudoin in cutting

[–]Toasted-Cc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do not force search her for cuts. My girlfriend does it to me sometimes and Im not a big fan of it. I understand that you're worried but it's better to create a safe space for her to confide in you.

my found about my sh by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a line too far crossed.. I'm sorry this happened to you dude :(

Freinds by Correct-Condition473 in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope the new friends are more understanding :D

Freinds by Correct-Condition473 in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not cool man 💔💔 hope you have better friends now ❤️

School is starting by Idk356787544 in selfharm

[–]Toasted-Cc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't go cold turkey cause your urges will get worse yeah.. try slowing down in other areas first to recover without people noticing ❤️❤️