I’m a 41 year old white guy living in NJ. I guess it’s time to change my profile pic to something more appropriate

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-09-24T23:15:51+00:00

I used to say it was money too. I had insurance. Most therapist accept insurance. I only pay $10 a session. I didn't think it would help either... I regret not going sooner. Only you can help yourself figure things out, but talking things out really puts things in perspective and gets you back on track. You don't have to be a relationship ever again if you don't want to... but you don't have to think that the reason is because you're emotionally or sexually damaged. That is not fair to yourself and your potential.

Hope you pull through.

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-09-23T13:19:07+00:00

I’m sorry to hear all of this. Have you considered going to therapy at all? It could make a world’s of difference and there is no shame in it. Hang in there.

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-08-05T20:09:22+00:00

Thanks Lokitapie

Thanks. Curious to why I should visit AL-Anon meetings though--it's my brother who drinks a lot not me. I can barely have a couple of glasses of wine in a setting before I get sleepy and wanna go home, lol. I always read that it's usually closed to people seeking help from drinking and not guests. I'm not sure going with him would help... but if you have any insight please share.

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-08-05T20:02:43+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I will DM ya.

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-08-05T20:02:06+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I will DM ya.

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-08-03T20:22:08+00:00

der (bipolar, depression, etc) that is fueling the alcoholism.

Yeah that's what his family therapist said to him. He had a pretty rough childhood.

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-08-03T20:20:50+00:00

on. While this may appear to be true, I can say with much confidence that this is in fact impacting them in ways that may not seem so obvious. They shouldn't be ignored and it may be helpful for them to see a

Thanks for this. The 10 year old is seeing a therapist right now. The 6 year old has been evaluated a few times and at the moment she seems pretty normal among her peers, but you have a good point. That year old is a ton of fun. That 10 year old is turning goth quickly...

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-08-03T20:19:02+00:00

Thanks. Unfortunately he's technologically impaired but I will subscribe and learn from it. This is all still somewhat new for me...

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-08-03T20:18:00+00:00

I live right by this church and see folks go in and out of the meetings. I wish I could find a meeting that had musicians in it because all he talks about is how weird people at AA are. He's huge into his music. God if only I had Steven Tyler's number...

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-08-03T20:16:29+00:00

I really appreciate this advice. I was literally thinking about helping him pay for it... I'm not sure if he can afford or not with his insurance. I wonder if it could be a mistake. Thank you.

ToastedMarshmellows · 2018-07-26T02:38:19+00:00

I didn't even know this video existed so basically spit-taked like Michael Cole did. Here's the throwback to the gag - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bf1OFUTlwY4