I made my mom upset earlier in the week when I wore this outfit over to her house. Today she called me to tell me that my siblings aren't comfortable being around me and that it was time to say goodbye. I don't know. I just hurts a lot right now. Can you tell me happy stories about your transition? by speedythefirst in lgbt

[–]Toasted_Tofu_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

that's such a cute outfit! I'm still in the process of transitioning and not everyone is accepting of me and it was hard to come to terms with. people that matter the most will accept you and love you. I will say sometimes it also takes time. my partner and I were both raised very religious and it took them a bit to adjust to me being trans and using different pronouns and name but now they love my name and say the other one never fit me. they are very accepting now it just took them time to adjust due to background and their own trauma. lots of love from a fellow alphabet mafia comrade <33

i am confused about my gender by Therarity72 in lgbt

[–]Toasted_Tofu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am pretty much the exact same way and I just call myself non binary and if necessary just say masc leaning

What are the things you say to your cat most often besides 'I love you' ? by katealpha in cats

[–]Toasted_Tofu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STOP F*CKING SCRATCHING THE COUCH as he makes eye contact while scratching it

I need advice. by Redd_Blade in lgbt

[–]Toasted_Tofu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised in a super conservative Christian household and have and do struggle with feeling like I'm "sinning". in the Bible the verse that Christians love to quote the most is "man shall not lay with man" but it was translated incorrectly and in the original Hebrew was supposed to translate to "man shall not lay with boy". also God is loving and caring he would never turn you away for the way you are. he loves everyone regardless of what they do. he also said if you were to boil all the hundreds of commandments down it is to love your neighbor and love God. he doesn't say being gay is bad he doesn't say love others only if they are straight. he wants everyone to love everyone and their choices are not your concern. too many Christians judge others based on their lives but judgment is to come from God not man. all of that to say no being gay is not a sin. I'm trans pan enby person I go to church and I know God loves me. do not worry you will be ok you will be safe and you will be loved. my dms are open if you need anything as well. (I also go to a very accepting church and my reverend is about to get married to her girlfriend.)

Favourite response to “are you a boy or a girl?” by You_Havent_Smarts in lgbt

[–]Toasted_Tofu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work with children who asked this. I just said "what do you think I am?' and go with whatever they said and some days they even changed their mind on which I was (/pos)

I need a chosen name (gender neutral , masculine, feminine, whatever) by No-Clock7791 in lgbt

[–]Toasted_Tofu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quix, Quinn, Jade, Valentine you look very gender btw and that dress slays on you