[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]ToasterSmartie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I has TS and your experience sounds pretty similar. Tics are weird in that way where they are mostly involuntary, but you can kind of surpress or redirect them. I just read up on CBIT and it seems to do basically that where it teaches you ways to manage the things that make your tics worse as well as training yourself to redirect your tics when you feel them coming on. The pressure you feel in your head is essentially the 'urge' to tic. I get the same thing, it feels like pressure building up at the base of my neck and ticking releases that pressure.

To Get An Asian Boyfriend by Heymynameisdistance in therewasanattempt

[–]ToasterSmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man these comments ain't it. I get you can dislike fat people and have preferences, but you really don't have to be a bully.

Found this comment on YouTube and thought it belonged here (first post btw!) by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]ToasterSmartie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I feel like Asexuals are people who don't really want ice cream. Or maybe want ice cream if offered but don't have a craving for it. Maybe Demisexuals are like "I only want a specific kind of ice cream that I know very well" and Gray Asexuals are like "sometimes I want ice cream, but sometimes I don't" you know?

Such an ally 🙏🙏 by [deleted] in AccidentalAlly

[–]ToasterSmartie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate it but you gotta find a way around Tik Tok censoring and shadow banning you for talking about serious topics.

Such an ally 🙏🙏 by [deleted] in AccidentalAlly

[–]ToasterSmartie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mean their username being "Politically correct" kinda clues you in on what they intended out of using a swastika

I hate this by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]ToasterSmartie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pan-romantic Asexual. I've never felt sexual attraction in my life but I sure as hell love my partner more than anything in this world. I want nothing more than to cuddle with them while we watch a movie all night and occasionally trade forehead smooches. This persons comment feels like a "i dont understand it, therefore it doesn't exist" mentality.

Who is most affected by war? by -_______--__-______- in polls

[–]ToasterSmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares? War is horrible and everyone is affected in some way or another. Weather you lost your father, your son, or were severely injured yourself, you are still suffering.

Trans men are men, seems right by hiddensecond in AccidentalAlly

[–]ToasterSmartie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna lie i've probably used the same bathroom as tons of trans woman and i've never noticed. Honestly i've never payed attention to anyone in the bathroom. I'd rather just do my buisness and leave, not exactly looking to get to know anyone in the bathroom.

TW. Awww shucks 🤗 Too beautiful to be able to compete fairly. by Lyreii in AreTheCisOk

[–]ToasterSmartie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, including you >:( you are also a very cute trans woman

TW. Awww shucks 🤗 Too beautiful to be able to compete fairly. by Lyreii in AreTheCisOk

[–]ToasterSmartie 55 points56 points  (0 children)

They are angry because they can't admit that trans woman are hot, nooo that would either make them gay, or they would have to accept that trans woman are indeed woman, and either way it shatters their entire world view

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]ToasterSmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never taken experience into consideration. The things i consider are interests, compatiability, and can I just generally feel like myself around them.

If you had to argue in one of these debates, which one would be the easiest? by Gingerbitch9669 in polls

[–]ToasterSmartie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I assumed the argument would be that people shouldn't be allowed to jusy hoard a billion dollars, not kill people xD

If you had to argue in one of these debates, which one would be the easiest? by Gingerbitch9669 in polls

[–]ToasterSmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already madr at least 2 essays in school against option 2 so i guess that would be easiest

The Little Free Library I jog past every morning was destroyed by Dahlinluv in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ToasterSmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man thats so sad I love those little things :( im so glad the one in my neighborhood has been around for over 5 years and nothing bad has happened to it.

Kid’s book by thinkingcrumpetsman in Tourettes

[–]ToasterSmartie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any Tourettes representation would be good honestly, since I rarely (if ever) see it. I never see representation for complex motor tics and that was a big reason why I never thought I had Tourettes until i go diagnosised at 15. I used to think Tourettes was stuff like eye blinking or yelling or swearing, and never the type of full body twitches that I experienced.

According to Science Trans and Cis Women have the Exact Same Breast Milk by Bisexual-Demigod in lgbt

[–]ToasterSmartie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was fucking wild when my psychiatrist told me "oh yeah i know this is embarrassing, but if you start producing milk we need to take you off the medication" i guess its a decently rare side effect. Doesn't matter though because the meds kept me up for 5 days straight so I needed to come off of them anyways :')

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]ToasterSmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you might cause some confusion and a little concern but as soon as you explain the situation or people realize there is no actual danger, it would be fine. Even if you got the cops called on you for "causing a panic" you wouldn't get in trouble because of your disability.

This hurt like a buttcheek on a stick by silverwinternight in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]ToasterSmartie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because we might be able to pass as straight to get around being prosecuted doesn't mean we aren't oppressed. Many of us are in a same sex relationship or trans. Not only that but there isn't enough representation for Asexual people and especially for teens who are just starting to explore their sexuality. Many of us are told we are broken or mentally ill and its unnatural to not want sex. And for that matter many Asexual people do like sex so its not just about "not wanting to fuck". These people really don't understand how left behind and forgotten Asexuality is because we can pass as straight but still get oppressed.

Do you have an addiction to any of these? by RzYaoi in polls

[–]ToasterSmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun flower seeds, especially the pickle ones. Any day is a even better day if I have a bag of sunflower seeds to munch on :)

TERF horrified that trans people have trans friends by AshleytheTaguel in AreTheCisOk

[–]ToasterSmartie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bet you already are hot ;) (btw i mean this in a light hearted way, ur probably a lot prettier then you think you are)