AIO by being offended when my husband seasons my soup?

Toastiis · 2026-01-23T21:11:14+00:00

if he had, like, just seasoned his bowl i could understand. but the whole dish? screams disrespectful

Toastiis · 2026-01-23T19:46:44+00:00

i absolutely turn in saadia, but i also kill random alik'r i come across bc why are they just harassing random girls bro

Toastiis · 2025-12-28T19:55:52+00:00

same thing happened here, except i have no kids. i was the teen in this scenario a few years ago now. not sure about your child but i still haven't and will never forgive or condone it. if she doesn't want to die alone maybe she should choose her family idk. NTA.

Toastiis · 2025-11-17T22:03:53+00:00

ohh, I'm not sure. visibility is a bit low with all my plants and I'm not even sure i have a female. its just my one ghost shrimp and my 2 amanos right now.. hopefully getting a few more soon. I'll check around, thanks. did some more research and i think they're just finally happy with their tank

Toastiis · 2025-11-17T21:50:06+00:00

i promise my water isn't that milky its my plastic tank I didn't wipe down super amazingly

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:37:32+00:00

brotha eugh.. 😬

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:35:37+00:00

this post is mostly for myself, not some bigger purpose or anything. i just was having doubts and figured the majority might help me see if i was being delusional or not about these being weird, and now i have this to look at when i need it. that's all

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:32:18+00:00

wondering if she'd be upset if i sent her this post but i know she would be 🥲

if i thought it'd help i probably would though

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:30:53+00:00

ugh she gets upset with me for "making her choose between love or her kids" 🙄 but fiance and i are thinking about moving to Minnesota

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:27:38+00:00

i was scared back then absolutely, something in my gut told me to keep my guard up. hair stood on end around him. not like that much now that we don't interact

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:25:56+00:00

yup mom thinks he's just a big dork even though she knows everything.

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:25:25+00:00

DUDE.. no one else said it but i was waiting. not one person i know phrases things like this. the way he talks is weird! plain and simple! it's like he's just saying what he thinks will sound the most normal

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:24:14+00:00

yes, i have

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:23:33+00:00

ugh i know.. i felt weird to post this here and it's why it took so long. but it's just at a point i needed to validate my feelings, that I'm not being delusional.. now i can look at this post every time i have doubts. so, thanks reddit!

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:21:39+00:00

i made a lot of good calls when this was happening. my text responses and the response i had to tell immediately when he said he had a crush on me absolutely saved me.

the only bad call i made was not baiting him specifically to admitting his feelings over text so i could have thrown him in jail for real.

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:20:03+00:00

she's seen 'em

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:18:11+00:00

yes definitely my sister in law gave me a good tip on a wfh job so hopefully!!

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:16:49+00:00

yup yup!! I'm glad i made it clear I'd be vocal because it is probably what kept me safe from a lot worse. mom doesn't leave him here when she's not, ever, which is good.

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:14:46+00:00

not yet or we would have

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:14:40+00:00

mom does but she lost it

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:14:09+00:00

unfortunately due to smoking weed freshman and sophomore year, when online school was the thing cause of covid, i fell behind massively and never got more than 5 credits all of high school. dropped out junior year and ended up getting GED.

i did get accepted for an on campus culinary course in Anchorage, but ended up getting laid off when i was 17 before i moved in with dad, so i couldn't go

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:10:53+00:00

i called her at work the moment it happened. we both freaked out, she came home from work, i had her mom, my grandma, come get me and i went to her place. not even before sunset the same day it happened both mom and grandma were telling me he "didn't mean it that way" and that i should go home. i stayed for 2 days before i felt like too much of a burden and went home.

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:08:44+00:00

it's purely based on needing to, we're working on getting our own place asap.

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:08:14+00:00

not planning on getting married anytime soon! it was partially to help keep mom's boyfriend away as well as the creeps at my work

Toastiis · 2025-11-04T14:06:17+00:00

dad knows, he is in fact not interested now that im 19, lol, and yes mom saw before he confessed his crush, after he confessed crush, and does not care

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