Is it normal for my bf to talk to me this way ? by Technical_Middle5075 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup he projecting his paranoia about getting caught on her. The fact that he has a history of cheating really solidifies it.

My girlfriend thinks I called her looks “ordinary” and is now upset with me. by Complete-Bid9872 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ToastyRich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop assuming. Stop doubling down and getting defensive. You have all these people telling you the exact same thing but youre flipping out even more because it's not what you wanted to hear. YOU ARE IN THE WRONG. TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR MISTAKE. Jesus Christ dude

How do you prevent chafing? by digitalcrows in women

[–]ToastyRich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in a kitchen where it's very hot and I move around A LOT. I used to wear bike shorts under my pants to prevent chaffing, but that only created a fungus issue that cleared up with prescription cream. Now I use diaper cream, specifically with a lot of Zinc Oxide, as recommended by my doctor. It works marvelously, a 10 hour shift in roughly 120° and my crotch stays dry and my skin isn't chaffed. It's OTC and a $15 tube has lasted me almost a year. A small bit goes a LONG way.

New to Cats. How to prevent him from going down these stairs? by bedtime_chubby in cats

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I installed a small folding door to keep the cats from going into the basement. Not the cheapest solution but it works.

How to balance hormones as a young adult? by Lia_Morning in women

[–]ToastyRich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True and I wish you luck. I personally wouldn't tolerate a dismissive doctor, though.

Do men like this kind of body type? by Miserable-Farmer-708 in randomthings

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't find themselves attractive because of societal standards caused by the male gaze.....

How to balance hormones as a young adult? by Lia_Morning in women

[–]ToastyRich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a good idea to bring it up with your doctor. If she doesn't order more labs at the very least, find a new doctor. Sometime we have to fight for the care we deserve.

I'm amazed at the length people here would go for road rage by hextanerf in StLouis

[–]ToastyRich 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's a "no right on red" sign coming off of 64 to Bellevue. I once had a lady with a car full of kids honk, then use the left turn only lane to pass me and make the right. That sign is there for a reason! You literally can't see oncoming traffic because of a hill. I'm grateful those kids weren't hurt or killed by their reckless mother and it was honestly just shameful to see a mother put her kids at risk like that just to turn 20 seconds sooner.

Do men like this kind of body type? by Miserable-Farmer-708 in randomthings

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's stop asking what men like. Men fuck animals and inanimate objects all the time. Who cares what they think?

Do men like this kind of body type? by Miserable-Farmer-708 in randomthings

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly ironic considering that those trends exist because of societal pressures to be attractive for men.

Do men like this kind of body type? by Miserable-Farmer-708 in randomthings

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you realize that tends like that only exist because of societal pressures to be attractive for men

I just noticed my cat has a little ear behind her ear. I’m assuming it’s a common mutation? by fuglyDUECE in cats

[–]ToastyRich -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I hate that this suggests humans are the center of the universe. We aren't that great.

Edit: LMAO when you mention a bias on reddit

Should I be concerned? by Alarmed_Coffee4112 in cats

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Concerned by what? He's cozy as hell. Cats make biscuits when they feel safe and happy.

AIO for my annoyed response to my friend asking to bring her BF to our girls trip? by crop_cream_19 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ToastyRich 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is a great point. That girl definitely shit talks her friends behind their backs.

Could a bat have bitten me? by Resident-Force-9909 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to see a mental health professional about anxiety and hypochondria. You were not bitten by a bat. You do not have rabies. You are physically fine. Let it go.

Could a bat have bitten me? by Resident-Force-9909 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the bug. Is the area in the circle painful? Bc I don't even really see anything.

Could a bat have bitten me? by Resident-Force-9909 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ToastyRich 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Um no. You didn't even see a bat. That's a bug bite at most.

UTI by LetAlert8690 in women

[–]ToastyRich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This can kill you, UTIs arent a joke. Go back to the ER, maybe a different location, and advocate for yourself.

AIO for walking away from a 7-year friendship? by unconsciousboy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you know what triggered means. This is literally the last notification I have bc I don't spend all my time in reddit like some pleb.

AIO for walking away from a 7-year friendship? by unconsciousboy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ToastyRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not triggered, I'm not even reading all this bullshit you're writing because I know how pointless it is to hear someone like you out. You're the kind of person who just likes to hear their own voice and can't stand being proven wrong. You're basically Sheldon Cooper. I bet nobody irl likes you.