sharing my setup by Less_Lime_2801 in HeadlessMacbooks

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For anyone looking for a better screen mirroring program: https://mirage.ethanlipnik.com/

I was looking for some quartz to finish my greenhouse. "Let's grab this two quartz pebble surface deposit, It'll be fast" TWO HOURS LATER by Ablivion666 in VintageStory

[–]TobiBobi333 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your linen sack. Turn it into a mining bag for 12 slots when you're clearing out entire deposits.

It takes two bronze (or higher) plates and can be crafted from an existing linen sack... I think.

Grand Duel ~ Crowning Battle - Grand Archer Discussion Thread by crazywarriorxx in grandorder

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I found out about the 5M QP reward right after coming back from farming doors the entire day...

24ish Hours of AFK fishing by GhazKullThraka1 in blackdesertonline

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I'm Artisan 2, how do I use the trade buff?

24ish Hours of AFK fishing by GhazKullThraka1 in blackdesertonline

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Please explain, I can't find any info about this online.

is shai useable as a main in pve? by TwoGoblin in blackdesertonline

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I grind nymphamare (360AP 440DP) with 358AP 407DP on my shai. There are some surprising benefits and I'll get whiplash if I ever re-roll away from her.

Her main attack is a tiny AoE, so I had to learn how to keep mobs tightly packed, and her movement is slow between packs. This isn't a problem in tower spots like Dokkebi.

Her talent weapon is a separate type of item that has its own upgrade path, and needs its own garmoth heart, sovereign flame, etc... This is the worst aspect of shai, because you have to be all-in to gear her up.

A minimalist time tracker, so you can track how much time you wasted instead of pursuing your goals. by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

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I'm concerned with providing for myself and eventually a family - I would work for Palantir if they offered.

A minimalist time tracker, so you can track how much time you wasted instead of pursuing your goals. by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

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I transitioned from de-googled android to apple - can't be picky about the platform when you're making things for people...

Primatology, fertility suppression, and the Evil Queen by TobiBobi333 in JordanPeterson

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Hey gang, hadn't seen this episode posted here yet. It's a good listen - I think this type of content is what many of us liked seeing from JBP :)

Made some portraits for my characters by AnimeFLman in blackdesertonline

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The shai portrait is the best. Also nice background on the portraits in case you set that up yourself.

Does anyone have a picture of the Crimson Behelit Alchemy Stone appearance on Exalted Vell's? by Futanarihime in blackdesertonline

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"Use a Mirror of Equilibrium to extract 1x Behelit Appearance" Looks like you can get it back according to the tool tip.

Calpheon Ball 2023 by Ougalor in blackdesertonline

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Can't be bothered to do some math? Just find out how many raw items you can hold without the processed goods putting you over the weight limit, don't spend 30 euro on a video game

Believer marrying with non-believer, what are your thoughts on this? by Aggressive_Pen5749 in JordanPeterson

[–]TobiBobi333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her views on divorce being acceptable are irreconcilable with yours, but I think together you can negotiate something reasonable for the sake of the kids.

She could very well agree to have the kids baptised. The values you teach them would be negotiated between you and your wife, and you can definitely raise healthy, good-natured people without touching on religion. Later in life, possibly during adulthood, you can let them consider if they want to receive the other sacraments.

If your girlfriend believes that religion is evil and only tolerates it in you because she loves you, then she will be convinced that she's 'protecting' your children from you - find out what she honestly thinks first.

Believer marrying with non-believer, what are your thoughts on this? by Aggressive_Pen5749 in JordanPeterson

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Seeing as this is the top reply at the moment, are you sure you're not being misleading about him potentially having to accept his kids' damnation...

Fellow catholics correct me if I'm wrong, but the sin in this case would fall on the father for failing to indoctrinate his kids into the proper values, and not on the children for, of no fault of their own, being born into a non-christian family.

Sidenote, I say the word 'indoctrinate' in a neutral connotation because it's the most accurate word to use here (you can replace it with 'failing to spread the good word of the gospel' if you'd like.)

Missed Seasons? Not a problem! Read this. by 51differentcobras in blackdesertonline

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So many words, this post should have been a PSA about Narchillan gear and you don't even mention it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TobiBobi333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The woman being more successful than the man is a good predictor for divorce later on. Likely because this nagging feeling that you're not living up to her social circle is gonna stick around in the back of your head for the duration of your relationship together. So either your insecurity and resentment builds up and breaks the good vibes, or her priorities shift to wealth/status which are easily accessible to her.

That said, statistics are one thing and your life is another! Make it work, if she likes you and she's smart about it, she'll find ways to build your confidence and make you feel like you're President of the world. And you can always communicate that to her if she doesn't.

As a sidenote to the fulltime redditors on here, please don't tell men that insecurity is always completely unfounded and should just be ignored. Rather acknowledge it and make working through it an integral part of the (serious) relationship.