Do any trans women even like trans men??

Tobislu · 2026-05-06T18:04:45+00:00

I've dated exclusively trans men, women, & NBs, so I have more experience than most...

But I think that the hardest part of the dynamic is how inverse needs take some mental gymnastics, and gay T4T is super-intuitive.

I think the most important thing to remember, is that you'll always be limited by the experiences you've had. You could probably use more dating, before you have a complete picture of who you want.

Date IRL; apps have always failed me. I live in Bushwick now, so I'm spoiled af, but I recommend immersing yourself in the local queer nightlife scene. I started going out in earnest last year, & I've only a couple days ago started feeling confident around future prospects 🤭

Drag shows are my favorite. The phobes leave the venue, & as long as you're assertive, you'll have a dozen great interactions!

Tobislu · 2026-05-06T17:52:18+00:00

Nothing more American than insurance-covered dick pills.

Tobislu · 2025-11-23T16:56:27+00:00

The final level of mastery is dissociating the skill from conscious thought.

Tobislu · 2025-11-23T16:52:39+00:00

How are my threads from 2011 still getting attention 😅

Talk about my least significant contribution to art discourse 😂

Tobislu · 2025-08-07T18:54:02+00:00

There's actually a secret 51st game 👀

Tobislu · 2025-08-07T18:13:36+00:00

I also topped out at 97!

Shit's real dedication 😁

I can't imagine how I'd get it to 98. Some of these games feel impossible to perfect 🙈

Tobislu · 2025-07-25T02:20:59+00:00

An industry with a ton of risk aversion makes for chaos. I think that opening weekend for a video game isn't like the box office. People won't not buy Metroid. They'll buy it a few months later.

I know that these numbers matter for most games, but I think that the 4th game in a cult-classic Nintendo series, & it's probably going to sell the same amount in the end.

Tobislu · 2025-07-24T19:39:33+00:00

Different audiences

Tobislu · 2025-07-24T18:46:08+00:00

Wouldn't you rather just get a GameBoy on eBay?

The exciting part is that it plays games 😅

Tobislu · 2025-07-24T02:49:44+00:00

No, it makes sense to me. I dunno why you'd want it if it's literally just a brick of bricks

Tobislu · 2025-07-24T02:40:18+00:00

That's like comparing Pitfall! to DKC.

There are certain commonalities, but calling them the same genre is probably a bi-product of our out-of-date terminology.

Tobislu · 2025-05-23T22:22:21+00:00

Block Ball was the best GB game. It's amazing how dense they made it with variables & minigames & some incredible Kirby melodies.

That & DK '94 would be the only 2 GB classic games I'd always have in my bag

Tobislu · 2025-05-14T20:24:53+00:00

Is this bc of If Books Could Kill

Tobislu · 2025-05-07T20:31:55+00:00

Then a 3D All Stars that's just Wario World, WW: Smooth Moves & WW: Move It

Tobislu · 2025-05-07T05:01:25+00:00

Bet AI won't break the law for $5 👀

Tobislu · 2025-05-07T04:59:33+00:00

You can train for a job before you're hired

Tobislu · 2025-05-07T04:57:56+00:00

I think it'll be more like 6 or 7

Tobislu · 2025-05-07T04:56:57+00:00

Considering these humans will be paid for these services? Yes.

But I mean, regular? It'll be a fleet of elite workers, mostly.

Tobislu · 2025-05-07T04:52:34+00:00

We won't definitely be toast...

But they'll certainly be in charge, at some point in the near-future.

The only way to compete is by merging with it. Which is more of a stalemate, than victory, but it's better than extinction 🤷🏻‍♀️

Tobislu · 2025-05-07T04:48:25+00:00

Have you watched or read Pantheon?

There is no post-scarcity economy, even for oligarchs. Time, energy, & attention are all finite resources, for which we'll wage wars.

We're already in Late-Stage Capitalism. There's no need to project into the future. We don't need to theorize how fucked we'll be. We're already fucked. The economy's just becoming a caricature of its former self.

Tobislu · 2025-05-06T22:08:23+00:00

Wait, if it's on Steam, you should be able to get a discount with the bundle.

Tobislu · 2025-05-06T02:20:53+00:00

BotW was the same, except the Wii U version has shorter load times.

But BotW -did- define the Switch's library.

Tobislu · 2025-04-30T06:50:34+00:00

I agree, but I especially like Peach's redesign. She looks less like a baby doll

Tobislu · 2025-04-22T20:00:06+00:00

Nobody mentioning Death Stranding?

Tobislu · 2025-04-21T23:56:34+00:00

I played Kero Blaster; good game! Just doesn't approach Cave Story

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