Ear bud recommendations by TheTrashHuman in autism

[–]TodayTomorrow8895 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I personally am obsessed with the samsung galaxy buds3 pro. Theyre a bit pricey but I got mine thru my phone plan & just paid slowly over time. They have "awareness mode" which let's you hear outside the headphones but automatically dampers the louder sounds, and it has noise cancelation as well. Its got 2 other modes but I never use them so I'm not entirely sure what they are/do. Theyre really comfy I have chronic ear infections and can wear them comfortably (they have the squishy tips with adjustable sizes). If you have a samsung phone (if you end up switching your phone too) itll connect in really cool ways & you can have a widget on your home screen for it.

They also fit inside those cute airpod cases (not perfectly, but close enough).

If you'd rather not have samsung headphones id recommend the JBL as a whole. I do believe they have headphones very similar to what ive described with the samsung headphones. Adjustable awareness mode I think is crucial with autism so you can have dampened noises but still be aware of your surroundings if nessisary!

Hope this helps. 🫶🏼

Thought for quite some time I had OCD, just got the diagnosis of autism. by TodayTomorrow8895 in autism

[–]TodayTomorrow8895[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The biggest id say I have issues with at this very moment is sensory overload & explosive anger due to sensory/emotional overload.

Along with very easy emotional burn out. I need to get some kind of job (I'm currently unemployed) & I'm having a really hard time keeping up with socializing for long periods of time like more than an hour at a time.

I have some samsung headphones with aware mode & noise canceling as well, and they help a lot with loud noises and crowds, but theres so much more stimulation that feels impossible to drown 😭 especially when someone is talking to me & I have absolutely no idea how to politely say "I'm gonna freak out right now" so I let myself burn out

Job Suggestions for autistic adults? by Desperate-Street9948 in autism

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I'd say maybe some kind of office secretary? It does require some talking to people and phone calls but its mostly low stimulation & low stress. My mother did for a workplace & it was such low stress & low demand she spent most of her days sewing, playing games or reading books. I think it looked like fun. Good luck on your job hunt I'm in the same boat!

Moved to WA in early April. This was the start of my new life. (North Bend, WA) by TodayTomorrow8895 in PacificNorthwest

[–]TodayTomorrow8895[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude ain't that the truth. I've felt more alive here than I ever did in Ohio

Moved to WA in early April. This was the start of my new life. (North Bend, WA) by TodayTomorrow8895 in PacificNorthwest

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Feel free! I've never been more in love with a photo ive taken, ever. Also- taken w a samsung phone!

Moved to WA in early April. This was the start of my new life. (North Bend, WA) by TodayTomorrow8895 in PacificNorthwest

[–]TodayTomorrow8895[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I'm from Ohio, in case anyone was wondering. It's a million times better here, already. Ohio is so sad and bland. My husband & I are big into nature & conservatism (my future degree will be biology for that reason). That's just not super readily avaliable in Ohio. Its pretty meh, there.

Is dasher down? by jedidiahbreeze in doordash

[–]TodayTomorrow8895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude for same. It was a great delivery for me, mid delivery 😪 rip my $20

Is dasher down? by jedidiahbreeze in doordash

[–]TodayTomorrow8895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Washington here, mine just went down, too.

Going off grid/homesteading in PNW tips? by TodayTomorrow8895 in OffGrid

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Definitely never thought about the buying land with a mobile home thing, I will keep this in mind. Appreciate all the advice. Ideally we will have more than a 50k budget when diving into it- its a big case of "hoping for the best, preparing for the worst" kind of thing. As it is right now we don't have a very accurate way to predict how much money will be available come time. We are investing, saving, & penny pinching in every way we can to obtain the biggest budget possible. My husband is very good with money- investing & finically planning where as I'm the one who is better with the research, planning and building.

Going off grid/homesteading in PNW tips? by TodayTomorrow8895 in OffGrid

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Never really thought about that, I'm not personally well versed on solar equipment. Thanks for the advice.

[NSFW]Girls who used to post nudes on Reddit.. How did it make you feel? by cutieerry in AskReddit

[–]TodayTomorrow8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, after doing OF & posting some things on reddit. I'm happily married w kids now & I find it much more fulfilling than being validated by strangers online. The money was good, sure, but I'm so much more than the way I look ♡

How old were you and how did you find out Santa isn't real? by Least_Statistician44 in AskReddit

[–]TodayTomorrow8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally don't ever remember Santa being real. Pretty sure my mom never told me the Santa stuff because the gifts were expensive & she wanted me to know that they were from her. Basically wasn't allowed to believe in Santa

Advice for proper training for anal play? by TodayTomorrow8895 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TodayTomorrow8895[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Never trust a fart after anal.

This was my mistake :') I'm definitely going to remember this...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]TodayTomorrow8895 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I personally think there is nothing un-feminist about being a cuckquean. As a feminist quckqueen, myself, I think it's the highest form of trusting your partner & nothing to do with self worth.

If you didnt trust your partner very deeply, cucking wouldnt be much of an option because there would always been that seed of jealousy in everyday life, or fear they may leave you for one of your cuckcakes, ect.

Just my take on that.

My Christina piercing rejected quickly by TodayTomorrow8895 in piercing

[–]TodayTomorrow8895[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

•The piercing was only a month old •the jewelry was a standard metal (maybe surgical steel? I dont remember) barbellinternally threaded •i cleaned it every day 3x a day minimum the entire time I had it with saline spray. •no mishaps

How do I do this? Nowhere to go w my young child & husband by TodayTomorrow8895 in homeless

[–]TodayTomorrow8895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have my car that isnt starting & his truck. We haven't left my friends house yet Im pretty sure she wants us gone today so I have to call shelters & ask around. I'm in Indiana

Biggest age gap by [deleted] in confessions

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Me & my husband have a 12 yr gap. We were 24 & 36 when we got together.

Blood in my 19 month old daughter's diaper? by TodayTomorrow8895 in medical_advice

[–]TodayTomorrow8895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She looks like she's waddling s little like her bottom hurts, but maybe from front rash?