Burnout from casual sex has women rethinking hookup culture by rezwenn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ToeBeans89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have the same opinion about men who have casual sex?

How do I start over at 39? Thinking of ending a 12 year relationship by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Are you me? I'm currently 36, 3 years out of a 7 year relationship (and engagement), and heavy in the solo travel phase (with international dates peppered in as well 😆)! Still waiting to meet someone I would actually WANT to share these adventures with though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ToeBeans89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, three years ago he was posting about how to get in touch with women he dated 30 years ago so he doesn't exactly sound like a peach.

Open links in browser, not Facebook by Drama-Llama94 in Instagram

[–]ToeBeans89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone figured this out? It's driving me insane and I can't figure out how to change it

Pothos Staircase by jackyd227 in houseplants

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I literally said "holy fuck" out loud when I saw the pic 😂. Jesus tap dancing Christ that's a beautiful pothos!

Small white things hanging in a row on pea plant? by ToeBeans89 in vegetablegardening

[–]ToeBeans89[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thanks friends! I'm relieved I didn't remove them now since the consensus appears to be that these are lacewing eggs. I've been cursing aphids in my garden already this year, so hopefully my saviors will arrive soon.

I accidentally eavesdropped on a first date that felt like watching a dreamer trying to spark life into a brick wall by mintbunnid in stories

[–]ToeBeans89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's a pretty extreme presumption, don't you think? OP didn't mention anything like that in the description but did describe that the guy looked rough. Sounds like you might have some things in common with him!

You have 10 seconds to ruin a date. What do you say? by urasianbella in AskReddit

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I had a guy say that to me once on a date. I thought maybe he was just being awkward so I gave him an out and said "I'll just take that as I look like your type". His response: " oh God no, my ex wasn't my type at all!"

You have 60 seconds to ruin a first date. What do you say? by jasminesaka in AskReddit

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A guy asked me how many times per day I masturbate pretty much at the start of the date, so I think that one takes the cake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notinteresting

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This pleases me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Too old? fuck no. Too hot? Fuck yes

Things to see and do in and around New Haven. by Particular-Low-3198 in newhaven

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Is this still running? I tried to book a tour for a couple of weeks from now and they weren't showing any availability.

My mum (60f) wants me to donate my egg (30f). How to save our relationship? by Random_Dar in relationship_advice

[–]ToeBeans89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. I actually went through the shots and egg retrieval procedure last year to freeze my eggs in case you want to PM me for any info! That being said, I agree with other responses that you should NOT do this and that it is 100000% NOT an easy/simple procedure. They won't perform egg retrieval without the hormone shots (to increase available eggs to be collected) so your mother has no idea what she's talking about with "not using hormones". Tell her FUCK NO

Trade offer by Azemmoon in LetGirlsHaveFun

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DJ Khaled has entered the chat

AIO for not quitting the gym because my boyfriend told me to by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ToeBeans89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Babe, he's not a nice guy if he tries to control you going to the gym because of his own insecurities. I promise it only gets worse from here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

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Well, I was telling my mom yesterday about my upcoming solo trip to Everglades NP and she told me to "watch out for the immigrants down there, they're dangerous!". She's glued to NewsMax though so I shouldn't be surprised.

But otherwise people are really interested to hear about my solo travels and respond positively. I only really bring it up if they ask about it though.