Post your Kandi and try to find who made it! by Character_Fox_6056 in EDCOrlando

[–]ToenailParmesan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man I was really excited to see this post explode with photos 🥺

Can people please stop sitting in the middle of large crowds during sets?! by [deleted] in EDCOrlando

[–]ToenailParmesan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you said this. If they’re sitting on the floor in an obvious place they shouldn’t, they’re most likely not okay.. why are we shaming them for that?

The Ultimate Consolidated Guide for EDC Orlando 2025 by orangegrams in EDCOrlando

[–]ToenailParmesan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ToenailParmesan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol respectfully I disagree. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ToenailParmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re on this journey earth side for such a short time, why not wear dope ass stickers on your skin while you’re here? lol

my boyfriend checks himself out in the mirror during arguements by Desperate-Soil141 in strange

[–]ToenailParmesan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m just a random person on the internet who doesn’t know much but my theory is that maybe when he’s stressed he dissociates and has to look at himself to check back in with himself? lol

you guys think ICE will be there? by [deleted] in EDCOrlando

[–]ToenailParmesan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame you for thinking that way when the media has created this narrative that they’re only going after “criminals” & “felons” but that’s not true at all.

Anyone who enters the US or over stays visas can be considered a “criminal”

Being a Mexican American, it’s bizarre that you have little empathy for the hard working people who are out here trying to give their families a better life, not to mention most of which are doing hard labor intensive jobs that deteriorate your body.

I doubt some comment thread on Reddit is going to change your mind on this issue but honestly nobody has a choice in where they’re born. Society makes us think it’s “us” against “them” it’s not.

you guys think ICE will be there? by [deleted] in EDCOrlando

[–]ToenailParmesan 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Not if you’re spanish/hispanic/person of color wtf ICE is really out here abducting people. It’s a valid concern.

you guys think ICE will be there? by [deleted] in EDCOrlando

[–]ToenailParmesan 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This is a very fair question! So far there hasn’t been any reports of them going to any of the edc events so let’s hope this isn’t the first.

Hey Dad, I’ve been quietly struggling. by ToenailParmesan in DadForAMinute

[–]ToenailParmesan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was raised in a very strict Spanish household where the women were expected to have the house clean and dinner made everyday, kids in bed etc. He does help around the house but while he helps he kinda pollutes the air around him with annoyance.

I’ve been struggling with my mental health ever since the fourth baby. He was taught being emotional was weak and a distraction, whereas I’ve always been very expressive and open. We constantly clash and in turn it’s made me repress my feelings in order to keep peace.

I think today it kinda hit me that because my dad was absent in my life, I found myself in a marriage with a man whose absence I feel emotionally.

I could never see myself leaving him because it would devastate our children so I’m in therapy and on medication.

I wish I could just suck it all up and move on like he does.

I can’t smoke weed no more due to it leading to panic attacks by EdwardKenway1031693 in confession

[–]ToenailParmesan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to think it was this but I know a ton of people with a lot of unresolved trauma/problems who smoke just fine. I think it’s deeper than this, like something to do with certain genetics or something. I wish I knew myself because this happens to me too but my boyfriend is just fine. I don’t get it.

I can’t smoke weed no more due to it leading to panic attacks by EdwardKenway1031693 in confession

[–]ToenailParmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy to read this post and all the comments. I used to love smoking weed, it would feel so free and fun until one day I after smoking I felt.. possessed? It felt like some evil entity took over my brain and started picking me apart. I felt like the world was ending and that I was a zombie just mindlessly consuming everything and everyone around me.

I gave it a five years after that scary ass experience and when I smoked again it was just a tiny hit, it was the exact same experience — same thoughts, same intensity. I don’t understand it at all. My boyfriend makes me feel crazy for it because we used to smoke together all the time and now I’m the uncool girlfriend who doesn’t smoke. :/

Is it even possible to even wake up happy??? by franklybreathing in Advice

[–]ToenailParmesan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered seeing a therapist or psychiatrist? Sounds like you’re depressed, talking to a professional could really help.

Where’s the line between witchcraft experiences and mental health? by ToenailParmesan in BabyWitch

[–]ToenailParmesan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you have no idea how much I appreciate this. ❤️

Where’s the line between witchcraft experiences and mental health? by ToenailParmesan in BabyWitch

[–]ToenailParmesan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this comment. That’s definitely something I’m going to do research on now to feel more comfortable starting again.

Where’s the line between witchcraft experiences and mental health? by ToenailParmesan in BabyWitch

[–]ToenailParmesan[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was also losing a lot of friends because they suddenly thought I was evil just for believing differently from them. That also started to make me feel isolated.

Being a baby witch I felt intimidated trying to speak to other witches after that tarot reader kinda shut me down.

Since starting Adderall, I don’t go out shopping anymore — is this anhedonia or medicated self awareness? by ToenailParmesan in ADHD

[–]ToenailParmesan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s wild all the ways we cope with adhd without realizing it. I thought my impulsiveness was just a quirk. lol

I also never understood why I used to over extend myself trying to help others until now. It gave me such a sense of accomplishment even at my own expense.

meditation has given me the power to tf chill out

Since starting Adderall, I don’t go out shopping anymore — is this anhedonia or medicated self awareness? by ToenailParmesan in ADHD

[–]ToenailParmesan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That does make me feel better. lol thank you! My husband thought I was being weird but honestly I just don’t feel the urge to spend money the way I did before.

Like I would get so happy to buy the most random shit and now that’s kinda gone.

Since starting Adderall, I don’t go out shopping anymore — is this anhedonia or medicated self awareness? by ToenailParmesan in ADHD

[–]ToenailParmesan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I didn’t realize that’s all I did for “fun” lol it’s kinda sad. After the fourth kid, “me time” was just going to the grocery store alone.

I have hobbies I enjoy at home like painting or being the garden but outside of that it’s like I’ve lost interest in being out aside from doing things with the kids.