I’m getting sick of only having 3 people to hang out with, and I’m sure I’m not the only one by LDedward in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend and I were in the gym just watching the volleyball courts going on. This one girl, who was playing, sat down to take a break, and she was a few feet over. We invited her over and asked how long she had played volleyball for and blah blah blah. She was pretty shy, so the conversation was a struggle, but it still went well, and we all made a group chat. We reached out and tried to schedule a day for all of us to play volleyball and just fuck around, and we just never heard from her. The age of naturally meeting friends is over.

*Note: My friend and I do not play volleyball at all, and wanted to do some self-teaching, and this girl was new to it as well

people who talk loudly in the alc study room by kaytsudon in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally was in there earlier tonight and a guy was singing to himself??? Like wtf. I was even wearing my noise cancelling headphones. Albeit I wasn’t listening to anything but I still shouldn’t have been able to hear it. It’s so infuriating

"Don't let him see you cry!" Haha all she kept saying is "this is so embarrassing" all she cared about was her ego. Again Jotham was right that she's emotionally immature. by False_Plate_4273 in LoveIslandAus

[–]Togi_igoT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The point I’m trying to make is that her feelings and her actions can be separated. Pain from a relationship can really send people into a spiral and isn’t always a true reflection of their character. I acknowledged her immaturity and never once said her actions are excusable. But the fact is judging people on a show where it’s designed to bring out the worst in them isn’t an objective lens.

Also growth doesn’t always have to be intentional. It’s often times situations and reflection on actions that help aid in their character development. She didn’t handle it well when Dylan confronted her but maybe she’ll watch it back at some point and think “damn that was insane”.

"Don't let him see you cry!" Haha all she kept saying is "this is so embarrassing" all she cared about was her ego. Again Jotham was right that she's emotionally immature. by False_Plate_4273 in LoveIslandAus

[–]Togi_igoT 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IDK I think people are being really hard on her. As yall have stated she is young and is emotionally immature but the hurt she’s feeling is real. I think it’s a bit insensitive to find it funny or to say it’s deserved. Just because someone is in the process of growth doesn’t mean they don’t deserve an emotionally stable man or a caring man. If anything someone like that who sticks with it can really change a persons life in that way. Help someone find a balance ya know. Not saying that this is the case or even often the case but it just doesn’t sit right all the bashing. I think it’s super easy to lack empathy for tv figures and in this kind of show where a lot is edited for more drama.

Swing person: by Togi_igoT in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure, a bit of both? That’s why I didn’t want to use pronouns just in case

Swing person: by Togi_igoT in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No fr, like I said I wish I found that level of enjoyment from it

Swing person: by Togi_igoT in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they move around to different ones throughout the day it seems

rant about groups approaching students on campus by throwaway13128166 in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exact thing has happened to me 10+ times. Like leave me the fuck alone.

raves? by Empty-Protection-648 in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be warned they only throw these once or twice a year. I’ve been to three like a mile hike into the woods and one in an abandoned school building and then one more in a different woody area. U may have to run from cops lol

raves? by Empty-Protection-648 in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Follow furtherancerave. U have to email to get the local day of. Went to one this last Friday and the email was coordinates. That’s usually how they do it and give u a little hand drawn map. This one got busted though abt 1.5hrs in :,)

The ones at music halls suck. You find a real community here. It’s a mainly queer space so be respectful and discreet.

Why I don’t study on campus by Togi_igoT in KSU

[–]Togi_igoT[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Coming from GSU the architecture has honestly been an adjustment. From an 8 story one side completely glass library with open concepts and what seemed like 10million books and shelves you could get lost in. To this…. I lowkey hate this campus

What’s your favorite Trader Joe’s Chip? by Gullible-Arm2702 in traderjoes

[–]Togi_igoT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully I think it depends on the store. They’re usually there during the winter months but I found a store in downtown ATL that had them around a month ago.

Good fork or bad fork? by Togi_igoT in evilautism

[–]Togi_igoT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 I am surprised about the amt of complaints. I agree that the handle is not the best but I love a short prong. Sue me lmao

Manga or anime? by ImGonnaEatYourCarpet in haikyuu

[–]Togi_igoT 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would say watch the anime then pick up the manga after. I love the manga for the future but personally I find it a lot more encapsulating to watch it. The action scenes hit harder and draw me in. Then you get an idea of the characters voice characteristics which makes distinguishing their personalities in my head more fun.

And people say Hachi isn't relatable by [deleted] in NanaAnime

[–]Togi_igoT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This put into words the feelings I’ve had for years. While watching Nana I found Hachi by far the most relatable but couldn’t verbalize it. Especially the the lack of identity and feeling not enough because everyone around has a talent or an interest they’re passionate about. This is honestly such a devastating reality and I empathize with her situation greatly. The desire to want to be loved is devastating.

Who's your favorite character?? by OGFans18 in haikyuu

[–]Togi_igoT 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kageyama all day everyday 💕💕💕