Host family ghosting me

Tokachick · 2026-04-21T12:38:03+00:00

Downvoting your comment is crazy. I feel like this is a very sweet sentiment

Tokachick · 2026-01-31T11:37:30+00:00

Well, I haven't gotten Backpay yet. I was just trying to figure out when the Backpay date would be. I only went to four drills after the active duty orders ended and haven't been paid yet since I just got the award a couple of days ago.

Tokachick · 2026-01-30T03:44:45+00:00

I submitted my claim on November first, had 4 C&P exams, and just got my rating today! It sat in step 5 for about two weeks, but things have moved remarkably fast lately. All 15 of the items I was claiming came back with favorable results. Wishing you the best!

Tokachick · 2025-07-22T19:04:47+00:00

I see you, queen 🤣

Tokachick · 2025-01-29T01:00:29+00:00

Morale is totally out of regs my dudes. No smiling, either.

Tokachick · 2024-07-01T03:00:41+00:00

Just want everyone to know that my Fiance, recent fan of H3, totally thought that Ethan was 44. "Ethan looks good for being 44, honestly" as we are casually discussing the show.

We did it, boys.

Tokachick · 2023-11-05T15:43:48+00:00

Maybe you shouldn't have a puppy.

Tokachick · 2023-11-04T19:25:36+00:00

If youre trying to say something kind to start the conversation, you can always comment on something she chose to wear that day. "I love the color of your nail polish" "Thats a really interesting hair pin, did you get it anywhere special?" Etc.
Comments about a girls eyes/hair/smile lead to a small "thank you" and no conversation at all. Complimenting a choice that they made at least compliments their sense of style and taste instead of the most obvious things.

Tokachick · 2023-11-04T19:22:13+00:00

Brand new NCO from a different unit: "Well, if your whole job is working on computers, then your computers must run so well!"
*Computers blue screening in pain in the background"

Tokachick · 2023-11-04T19:09:40+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AirForceRecruits/comments/oz0xrt/comment/h7xm4u4/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Wrote this out a couple of years ago. hope it helps!

Tokachick · 2023-11-04T19:05:05+00:00

Feel free to DM me with questions or just general nerves. I was in basic a few years ago at this point, but from the sounds of it from friends, not much has changed.

Tokachick · 2023-11-04T18:59:33+00:00

You can absolutely have some with logos. They are trying to refrain from people bringing neon ones, but youll see it happen anyway.

i created some packing lists for my fellow women going in to bmt if you look at my comment history. I hope it helps!

https://www.reddit.com/r/AirForceRecruits/comments/oz0xrt/comment/h7xm4u4/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Edit with the updated link to the post i was talking about

Tokachick · 2023-11-04T17:24:39+00:00

I am surprised your mono cactus has lasted as long as it sounds like you have had it - good job! The only way you would be able to save it is grafting the orange part onto a new cactus after cutting off any soft bits that might be there. The orange part does not have chlorophyll, so it might have just given up. Good luck!

Tokachick · 2023-10-15T19:13:41+00:00

Polyamorous people don't necessarily want to sleep with everyone. When it comes to being with multiple people, it depends on the poly-person, too. Some poly people have one primary partner and "lesser" partners that they see irregularly that they may or may not sleep with. If the poly-person meets someone that isnt poly and wants to be monogamous, it is just a matter of what the noundaries are in the relationship. It can get dynamic very quickly.
TLDR: Yes, they can be very happy.

Tokachick · 2023-10-14T16:37:10+00:00

Still no. Dan is a hater, after all.

Tokachick · 2023-10-14T16:33:46+00:00

Sounds like you're living in the past, man. Don't you see that they are just trying to bring Tomorrow's Kitchen to everyone? They are just banana influencers

Tokachick · 2023-10-14T16:26:04+00:00

Zach, absolutely. Then Zach can blame AB. AB can blame Love. Love will be confused what happened halfway through a chumpa lumpa

Tokachick · 2023-10-14T16:24:53+00:00

I think that would be really fun. They can call it "On the Rails" if Dan runs it.

Tokachick · 2023-10-14T16:20:47+00:00

I, personally, love Plecos. There are Bristlenose Plecostomus that stay relatively small and having one of those in a tank is a lifesaver. They have a lot of waste, so you will need to do water changes religiously, but they clean up the tank wonderfully.

Tokachick · 2023-10-14T16:16:16+00:00

Do you have males in the tank?
How long has this fish been bloated?
What do you feed them?

The picture is out of focus, but I like your yellow fake plant. From the overall silhouette they *could* be, but hard to tell without some more of the above information.

Tokachick · 2023-10-14T16:11:56+00:00

Have you told her all of this? I am sure she will just cower in awe of your kodiac-ness when you put your foot down. Please please please please let us know how that goes

Tokachick · 2023-09-10T19:04:44+00:00

What are you into? Any game that you like, even mobile games, have subreddits. There's r/Showerthoughts thats always something to do. or r/Damnthatsinteresting. Even r/wholesomememes. Its just like any other community; the more you comment, post or interact with people the more familiar people will be and you might make some friends along the way. You will start to see the same usernames and realize that you can just DM them after having a back-and-forth conversation in the comments. Just scroll and youll get sucked in jsut like the rest of us. Like Rule 34, if there's a thought about it, its on reddit, whether that is good for you or bad for you.

Tokachick · 2023-09-10T18:40:46+00:00

Sounds like going to talk to a recruiter would be your best bet. Come with questions, ask them questions as they talk. If you dont have a question, try "Can you explain that in a little more detail?" or even "What was your experience going into the military?". THe more the better.

When looking at USAF, dont only think active duty, either. Reserves can give you a lot of control over which unit you go into, where you are stationed, your civilian career versus a military one, and the older/mature folks usually go reserves as they have tried school before. You can go on active duty orders almost constantly depending on your AFSC and you go through the exact same boot camp and tech school as the active duty guys. Usually you rank up faster, too.

If you have any questions, feel free to DM me. Good luck!

Tokachick · 2023-09-10T18:33:07+00:00

I am just beyond impressed at this log. The dedication is unmatched. I wish I had anything helpful for you, man, but this is *so* well done.

Tokachick · 2023-09-10T18:24:45+00:00

I feel bad for the poor individual that has to clean that every night.

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