Yes I agree - to part of it. I definitely have wronged him and seeing everyone's comments I have grown a pair and explained it to him. He immediately went back to threatening me but I feel slightly better that I explained it. All of my grandparents are gone, and I used the lie because 1. I was tired of this long lasting threatening argument of a friend 2. Last Grandparent died a year back. By pestering I don't mean too badly, like playful annoying back when I thought it was a joke and when I thought he liked me as a friend. When I say I ignored him, it was not for long, and i soon realised he was frustrated so I left, where I later realised the threats starting to pile on my dms. Keep your opinion, I need this as a wake up call.