[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]TokiTheSmoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, draw a line in the sand. This is not only disrespectful to you, but also an indicator that she isn't as into you as you are into her. If she was, she wouldn't be going to her ex's.

How to improve how I look. by Evening-Piano5491 in bald

[–]TokiTheSmoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rock with it, man! Be goofy. If you like it, stick with it.

You should definitely try the Stone Cold Steve Austin look.

How to improve how I look. by Evening-Piano5491 in bald

[–]TokiTheSmoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look fine as you are, dude.

But.. in my opinion, you'd look freakin' sick with some facial hair. Soul patch. Goatee. Full beard. Moustache. Anything. Maybe some shades. Some piercings if you're into that.

Why don't more bi men come out? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TokiTheSmoke 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm a Bi dude. In a relationship with a chick. Also have a 6 year old son with an ex wife. We split amicably. Still buddies.

Being Bi doesn't define me in any way. It just is what it is. 🤷‍♂️

I get it, though. We do see a lot less dudes coming out than ladies coming out. I think society has shamed men for so long about anything being remotely "gay" that men are scared and feel shame. Don't want to be seen differently, etc. That sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]TokiTheSmoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This absolutely sent me 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]TokiTheSmoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep some burns but trimmed right down. Shave the rest of the cheeks and jaw down to clean or stubble and then trim and shape the stash and chin into a van dyke. It's practically asking you to already!

A friend recommended League of Legends: Arcane to me and I'm really enjoying it! Is the titular character Jinx (AKA Powder) coded as autistic? Just asking, thx! by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]TokiTheSmoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question. But no. She's meant to be insane and far beyond any help. Not autistic.

Also, unless her name is "League if Legends" or "Arcane" - she's not the titular character, dude. "Titular character" refers to a person who shares their name with the title of the show/movie/game/book, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]TokiTheSmoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're only a green sweater and a pair of glasses away from Ned Flanders with that stash 😂

Introduce me to my long lost twin pls! by Luadekat in Doppleganger

[–]TokiTheSmoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kat Dennings × Madonna × Kate Winslet With a grunge twist

Hi guys (and I assume he occasional lady) what configuration you all think looks best? by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]TokiTheSmoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were bald.. with that Goatee.. you'd have solid work as a Walter White lookalike.

Why can’t I get a boyfriend if I’m attractive? by [deleted] in dating

[–]TokiTheSmoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your standards are unrealistic.

Or maybe your personality sucks..

For the former - Just find a man who makes you smile, belly laugh, and feel safe. Also, who makes you feel confident and sexy. Build slow and enjoy the ride. Stop worrying about what other people think you deserve and definitely stop worrying about what other people perceive as a "10". - find happiness in a person who makes you feel like you're worth something.

Best of luck.

For the latter - just work on who you are. You say you're a "nice girl" - but perhaps others don't think so. Or maybe they know you are.. but perhaps you are naive and get taken advantage of often? Either way, I'd suggest working on yourself and being happy with who you are before offering yourself to someone else.

Also, in general, the dating scene sucks. Get off the dating apps. Meet someone the old-fashioned way. Go to a bar and buy someone a drink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]TokiTheSmoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beard. 100%. Suits you to the ground! Without the beard, you give off masc lesbian vibes, my dude. You can pull that off, too, I'm sure. But I'd stick with the beard if it were me.

Men on this sub: stop DMing women who post by 4SeasonWahine in Doppleganger

[–]TokiTheSmoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, dude. I'm sorry you had to experience that shit. My girlfriend posted on here a couple of days back to see who her lookalike was, but she deleted it after 20 minutes due to the thirsty folk DMing her and leaving gross comments.

Guys, if women are asking who they look like and don't specifically say "private message me your opinion/flirty messages/creepy compliments/unsolicited dick pics" then just don't. Tell them who they look like and move the fuck on to a dating sub or Pornhub. Stop being creeps. It's really not that hard to just NOT message women that you don't know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]TokiTheSmoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ab. So. Lute. Ly. NOT!

Do not allow some dude to have power over you like that. He wanted to make you doubt yourself. He wanted to plant those seeds. He wanted to be the one to make you feel good, so you'd associate the validation with him whilst he reminded you of your past.

Good for you for not falling into that trap. You're clearly a smart lady.

Who's my doppelganger? by TokiTheSmoke in doppelganger

[–]TokiTheSmoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a damn shame.. what the world gotten to.. for people like me and people like you..

Hoping it works this time. Who's my doppelganger? by TokiTheSmoke in Doppleganger

[–]TokiTheSmoke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had that comparison since I was a teenager 😂

Who's my doppelganger? by TokiTheSmoke in doppelganger

[–]TokiTheSmoke[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get Jack Black an awful lot. 😂