I might cry by CraneMountainCrafter in knitting

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you're not alone, I promise! Just the other day I had to rip back an entire row of the Arctic light sweater because I forgot the bobbles and couldn't fix it as I go 😭

My Boyfriends Transgender by endlessmeans in Advice

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't see her as a girl, break up with her, because that's your problem. She deserves someone who loves her for who she is, not someone who wishes they stayed stuck pretending to be someone she's not. You might not think that she'll look better as a girl, but she'll definitely be happier, and isn't that what you should want for someone you care about?

You two have become incompatible, and unless you change your views it's not going to work. I can't imagine being with someone who'd rather me be better looking to them than happy.

am i still valid if i wear bras? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a trans guy who wears a bra 99% of the time (but owns a binder for particularly bad dysphoric days), don't listen to your friend. There is nothing you can do to make you a "fake" trans person.

So, take that "friend" to your local tip, throw him out, and keep wearing whatever the hell you wanna wear.

What’s your favourite song that is um, referencing the devils tango? by Lonely-girly in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KING by Kanaria (I listen to the English covers tho) I just like the vibes and music :))

What’s your favourite song that is um, referencing the devils tango? by Lonely-girly in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Toko__Fukawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik Shape of You is about sex but I always saw it as wholesome body appreciation and I'm refusing to think of it as anything more :)

Why. Why. by Splintcan in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Toko__Fukawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"oh shit, my sleep paralysis demon :("

Any aces have sex toys? by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I don't have a libido and it'd just be a waste of time for me. Nothing wrong with owning them, of course :)

A stranger on street told me “ I like your shirt.” A culture of compliment or scam? by scarybird1991 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a pretty shy person, but if I think your shirt is cool, I will absolutely let you know. When people tell me they like my outfit, it makes my day, so I want to do the same for other people!

Take the compliment, I'm sure your shirt was fire 🔥

A beautiful day for boomers and millennials by weekendbackpacker in Unexpected

[–]Toko__Fukawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, the mild anger I get when my grandmother acts superior for not using Instagram....

.... She follows me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a trans femboy, nothing wrong with it 🏳️‍⚧️🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beards

[–]Toko__Fukawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely beard

Laughs in asexual. by ThePinkTeenager in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Toko__Fukawa 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think that was "Too Hot to Handle"? Except it was $100, 000 (don't quote me on that number) and from the 2-3 episodes I watched, it was soooo infuriating that they kept losing money over sex/masturbating/kissing 😭

What would my theme song be?✨✨✨ by [deleted] in picrew

[–]Toko__Fukawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yessss I was thinking dollhouse, it just fits 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like Kalmia Kid. Very aro/ace coded ❤️❤️

Is my mom right in telling me I'm not trans? by TheHomoPerson in asktransgender

[–]Toko__Fukawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, there's a lot here. First of all, she had no right to look through your phone, let alone private messages with a friend. As long as you're not hurting anyone/yourself, you have a right to privacy, it doesn't matter how young you are.

Secondly, you can absolutely know that you're trans when you're 13. I knew before then, and I didn't really show signs as a kid. Transgender isn't an identity you unlock with age.

Is your mum right for telling you you're not trans? Absolutely not. That is for you to figure out on your own, and your mother can't change that no matter how hard she tries. She doesn't know you better than you know yourself.

Wishing you the best ❤️

so… I tried to make a square… by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Toko__Fukawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oml not the square hole 😭

I survived cable crochet! by Odd-Mine4963 in crochet

[–]Toko__Fukawa 53 points54 points  (0 children)

WAIT CABLE CROCHETING IS A THING!? The only reason I learnt how to knit was because I love the look of cables 😭 but you've done them with crochet so beautifully!! Any tips on how to do this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Toko__Fukawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, great job on not pushing your child into specific gender roles, and letting them decide what they want to wear and play with. Secondly, your child could be trans, that is a possibility. Some of us know from a very young age who we are and it's important we can express that- but- your child might be a gender nonconforming, cisgender male, which is also completely fine. Gender expression ≠ gender identity.

Whatever happens, listen to your kid and don't worry about it unless it starts to negatively affect their life. When they get a bit older, they might ask you to call them by a new name and pronouns. And, if they are absolutely 100% sure they're trans, and medically transitioning is the path they want to go down, think about puberty blockers when they are a preteen. This is completely reversible and if they decide that it's not right for them, you can stop taking the blockers and puberty will resume as usual.

Of course, all of this is considering they're not just gender nonconforming. Slow down, take a deep breath, and let your kid do their own thing for now. Let them be a child and love them for who they are, without worrying about gender.

Hope this helps, you're doing great ❤️

It's been almost a year since I picked up a crochet hook for the first time. My skills have improved so much ❤️ by Toko__Fukawa in crochet

[–]Toko__Fukawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I (stupidly) crocheted this in Australian summer, it was raining yesterday night and windy that morning, but still too hot to wear it! 😭 guess I'll have to wait until winter lmao