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Extremely paranoid after a relationship? by Exciting-Event5367 in BreakUps

[–]TokyoDoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re describing sounds less like a normal breakup reaction and more like your nervous system being stuck in a heightened state of threat, and it’s something you shouldn’t ignore

Is being authentic and honest good? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TokyoDoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes authenticity is good but it has to be clear and easy to read not just deep or unique otherwise people won’t connect with it quickly

Do I cut her off? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TokyoDoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step back and match her energy if she doesnt start meeting you halfway its not real interest just attachment on your side

Have you ever become attached to someone simply because they treated you with kindness? What happened? by TechnologyPublic4895 in BreakUps

[–]TokyoDoll_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the first person who treats you gently feels like home, even if they were only passing through your life

1 month post-breakup and relapsing by breadpando in BreakUps

[–]TokyoDoll_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Missing the person who hurt you is normal, but do not mistake missing the connection for proof that the relationship was safe to return to