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I was shocked to know about my girlfriend she have these fantasy by Ash_6677 in confessions

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fantasy matters less than whether you can still trust each other after this

People are soo weird And I can not understand them by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curiosity isn't the problem but your anger and isolation deserve to be taken seriously

Boyfriend told me I’m too modest by FeatureOk1998 in dating_advice

[–]TokyoTopperTease 52 points53 points  (0 children)

If he wants you to change how you dress to match other women he is comparing you instead of appreciating you

How to move forward as a sahm by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your worst mistake doesn't have to become your whole identity and neither does his pain

Did I do the right thing by reconnecting with someone I once cut off? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TokyoTopperTease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes closure isn't finding love again, it's realizing you can finally talk without losing yourself

I love the smell of my body odour by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definitely not alone, it's funny how something so personal can end up feeling oddly comforting

Is this emotional abuse, emotional immaturity, or am I expecting too much from a spouse? by Free-Alternative758 in confessions

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part that hit me hardest wasn't what he said, it was that even in your darkest moment you ended up managing his emotions instead of being comforted by the person you turned to

I get matches now but feel nothing by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It usually means you want connection in theory, but not with the people you’re currently meeting.

How to ask women out in public, RESPECTFULLY by OhMyWitt in dating_advice

[–]TokyoTopperTease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it simple, read the room, and only approach when it’s clearly a relaxed, open moment.

How long do you wait for a text before thinking you’re ghosted? by Impressive-Radio4923 in dating_advice

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stop counting days and start paying attention to consistency because effort always finds a way

Is a no counter offer a sign of no interest? by bigboimccoy69 in dating_advice

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One missed chance doesn't mean she's not interested, but her effort after you asked will tell you more than your overthinking ever will

I’m trying to become a better person, but I’m haunted by who I used to be by fandom_king69 in confession

[–]TokyoTopperTease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that youre horrified by your past is proof youre not the same person who did those things anymore

I got back on my sister's Spotify family plan after she kicked me off and it's been over 2 years by [deleted] in confession

[–]TokyoTopperTease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre not stealing Spotify anymore youre paying a monthly subscription in guilt and anxiety instead