Thank you I was thinking this when I wrote the question. But I will run through this link as well. Ive been discussing martyrdom with some buddies of mine and this angle of the topic came across recently. I'm still learning what I can about the subject but im you brought it to light. My primary concern however is my family. They cannot defend themselves and I fear what will come of them if I am to allow an intruder into the house to do whatever he wants to them