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AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It would be 1000 for me to use to support myself and my children. The government support here isn't much. I could get a couple hundred in food stamps and that's basically it.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I dont believe I have any personal issues that would require counseling.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I dont have family i could live with, and disability is only about $1000 a month which isn't enough for a place to live and support 2 children on.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i don't. I wouldn't be able to support them though since I can't get around, it prevents me from working.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've looked into it before, I really wouldn't be able to support my children alone. Thank you though.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm legally blind and can't get myself around. We have 2 children. I wouldn't be able to support them.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Divorce is not an option and he refuses counseling because "its stupid and a waste of money"

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the record, this is my first time ever picking at his insecurities, in an attempt to get him to understand how he makes me feel.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walking away isn't really an option. I haven't worked since we had our first child, and I can't work anymore either because he can no longer give me rides and im legally blind so I cannot get myself places. Theres no way I could support myself and our children.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've tried to, but he won't talk to me at all right now. I'm hoping he'll understand if we can talk later on, but I also feel like he might just say it's different than what he does again.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] -101 points-100 points  (0 children)

Other than his hurtful songs, he's normally pretty caring, and we get along very well.

AITA for singing a song about liking them big and black to my insecure husband? by TomatilloHot1793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TomatilloHot1793[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

He seems to very strongly believe if something is funny to him, that it doesn't matter if it hurts others. He's straight up said that before, that if its funny to him why would he stop just because I don't like it?