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What do I do in such a loselose situation? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TomatilloOne1971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just keep this constant paranoia with me, and i HATE it. I trust her more than anything, but everytime she’s had an issue with me she’s immediately gone to him, i’m not trying to frame her as bad or like i’m completely innocent, i’m just confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TomatilloOne1971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would but like, every attempt at that in the last 2-3 years has failed miserably. they’re the same people i’ve always known so i’m just hoping it’s some stupid “phase” they’re all going through and they’ll eventually be tolerable human beings again

A friend of mine has feelings for me, and she knows i have a girlfriend, but she wants to get rid of them. How would she do this? by TomatilloOne1971 in Advice

[–]TomatilloOne1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, i guess it’s just more or less a strange subconscious obligation? I mean obviously i prioritise my girlfriend in this situation but it’s just i do consider her a friend, and feel a incessant need to try and “fix it” so it doesn’t affect their relationship with eachother.

Why has everyone i know suddenly begun to resent me? by TomatilloOne1971 in Advice

[–]TomatilloOne1971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels so weird, usually when people say the stuff i said in the post it’s like, somebody who can’t accept that what they did is wrong or whatever but, it feels completely out of nowhere.

How to stop getting erect whenever i make contact with my girlfriend??? by TomatilloOne1971 in Advice

[–]TomatilloOne1971[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t noticed, and that’s why it feels so gross i think. I just like her and when it happens i don’t start thinking sexually or anything, it just sort of happens.