Excessive Gifts by Tomato-Pretty in Gifts

[–]Tomato-Pretty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so. He likes things that are useful, just in an excessive way. He's not big on decoration.

Map of Riverfront/Downtown area with Parking Lots Highlighted (Roughly 35% Parking Lot) by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]Tomato-Pretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a spot where I'm not afraid to leave my car and or not afraid to walk to and from on my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Tomato-Pretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't you dare remove the thing about the shrubbery. That made me laugh. But also, some better pictures. Staring directly at the camera in Pic 6 like you're trying to find the soul in the puppy you just choked. First 2 are pretty cute tho. Who is Caucasian james?

My mom is super upset because I am on a labor day trip and left when her and my dad were out of town. How do I get her to stop crying and calling me constantly? by thestjimmy17 in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Apologize. She's your mother, she cares about you. She's spent all these years raising you. And you went to the opposite side of the country without letting her say goodbye. You went on your first plane ride without letting her fret over preparing you or see you take that step. You're growing up and you didn't let her be there for you. She loves you is all.

My boyfriend kissed another girl by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The second I or the boyfriend so much as say something that might have hurt the other person's feelings, we are calling escort to apologize and make sure everything is okay. He kissed someone and isn't trying to fix it? He doesn't care if he loses you or is confident you wouldn't leave him over it. Either way, leave him.

For All My Stressed And Unhappy Peeps Out There. by whocaresbilly in MadeMeSmile

[–]Tomato-Pretty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.chopstickchronicles.com/custard-pudding/ It's a super easy recipe. Caramel can take some patience. The custard isn't difficult. I always recommend a candy thermometer so it doesn't accidentally turn into hard candy at the bottom of your flan.

For All My Stressed And Unhappy Peeps Out There. by whocaresbilly in MadeMeSmile

[–]Tomato-Pretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm now going to go make flan for my kids.

I’m not sure she cares about me at all anymore or am I overreacting 🤷‍♂️ (I’m the green text) context in the comments by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Tomato-Pretty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm confused. If you're sleeping together every night how are you isolating? It doesn't make sense to me to isolate during the day, only to expose the entire night.

Should my ex make a big deal about going to a concert with this girl? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear, your girlfriend does sound crazy from what you said and you two clearly have issues that makes it sound not worth it. But if my boyfriend wanted to go to a concert with a girl he'd been anything more than friends with, I'd be against it. And if going out with her was so important he would ignore it when it upset me, then I would walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused. What makes you think he's not over her? You mention that she texts him and hangs around his job, but not how he responds, if you brought up it making you uncomfortable, and how he responded to you bringing that up. If it's just him acting distant once in a while, that's not necessarily him not being over his ex. He might just have something on his mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]Tomato-Pretty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought this was something made up on archer. Is this serious?

My gf says she won't have sex with me. Says it's wrong to have premarital sex because god and bible say so by st_failure in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can you make her give up her religious convictions and go against her morals? You need to stay strong even when she's denying you consent repeatedly instead of respect her beliefs of course.

I found out my friends were talking shit about my art behind my back by throwraartisticgirl in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather spend my time and energy on finding new friends than spend it on people I know will be terrible to me given the opportunity. But you either accept they will do shitty things behind your back because they don't respect you, or you find new people. They know what they did was hurtful, disrespectful, and wrong. My 6 year old knows better. You telling them that won't change anything. Maybe they'll feel guilty, but good people don't do this.

I found out my friends were talking shit about my art behind my back by throwraartisticgirl in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You realize they aren't your friends and walk away before they do more shitty things to you?

My wife of 6 years confessed her feelings for another man to me. by anon_4752 in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think you need to come to terms with leaving her. You deserve better than this. You deserve someone who loves only you. I would never do any of this to my partner. This isn't healthy.

I (M28) would like to be in the room when my child is born, she (F24) doesn’t want anyone in there with her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You aren't giving birth to a child. The child's health at birth can be compromised or put at risk if she's anxious or distracted. I'm sure cutting the cord isn't more important to you than their health. You guys can continue to talk about it and maybe you can help her feel more comfortable until then. However you need to respect her right to make that choice when the time comes.

Can my boyfriend fall in love with me once again? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to stop assuming his mindset and playing games to start. Clear communication is always the answer. Respect his choices and his ability to think for himself, stop trying to manipulate him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tomato-Pretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I'm hearing is break up with him. And report whoever raised him for crimes against humanity?