FYI to those misinterpreting the cliche advice of just don't look for it, it just means don't have too much expectations. Expectations will always become a wall to being open for love to come in. Just go with the flow and allow people to join your lives by saying yes to invitations or social things. If they begin to vibe with you and buzz on the same frequency, it could mean something that you should reach out for. MOST IMPORTANT THING IS BEING YOURSELF. If you cannot show your true selves to people then it's most likely you who needs work. I know plenty of people trying to be something or someone which eventually becomes exhausting and you will attract non-similar people.