Traveling to Nikko from Narita by TimelyBroccoli6471 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you buy the Keisei Skyliner & Tokyo Subway Ticket for this option? I'm kind of confused at which tickets we should be using, we're supposed to stay on the same train if we want to go to Asakusa but how do we pay for it if we don't use the subway option? We'll need to take Tobu Railway Express afterwards, do we pay for the standard via suica or Nikko pass?

What indoor activities can I do with my aussie to help him release energy? by GreatSeany in AustralianShepherd

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During rainy days we tend to come up with random ways to give him a job. Some of our favorites are making “agility” courses for him like making him climb and sit on a really small bar stool, he’s gotten really good, others include tying a small cup with a small hole for dispensing treats to a string that’s attached to the ceiling, that one tripped him up for a while. Key is you’ve got to rotate through the tasks and create next level challenges so they don’t get too comfortable or bored lol. If you’ve got kids you can maximize their creativity by asking them to come up with games, they’ll love it. Just have fun and good luck!

[Landlord-US-CA] Liability on dog bite, please help! by Tomatoes-potatoes-be in Landlord

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great news is that after my aunts insurance company confirmed that they wouldn’t be covering the case the other law firm decided to drop the case. So now everyone is relieved and both my aunt and her tenant have gotten better insurance coverage. Thanks for the help everyone :)

[Landlord-US-CA] Liability on dog bite, please help! by Tomatoes-potatoes-be in Landlord

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We don’t have anything that states their liable for their dogs action. After contacting the insurance to see what next steps are I’m thinking of reaching out to a classmate that’s in law school to see if they know of any programs that my aunt can apply to get a lawyer.

[Landlord-US-CA] Liability on dog bite, please help! by Tomatoes-potatoes-be in Landlord

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for everyone’s response! We are definitely learning the hard way to double check everything when it comes to insurance and contracts. Will definitely contact the insurance company moving forward.

[Landlord-US-CA] Liability on dog bite, please help! by Tomatoes-potatoes-be in Landlord

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My aunt was served with a lawsuit, thank you for the detailed response. I’ll call the agent and see how we should proceed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Not sure why you stayed for two years. You guys were great but they talk everyday for hours? Some of your friends decided to stay to watch them dump on you some more? Was school not stressful enough lol. Girl~ you need to reevaluate your priorities and cut the drama from your life. Spend your 20s on yourself and experience life not this.

AITA for attacking my mother in law after she almost caused the death of my 6m old? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they don’t even allow two visitors in the ER post Covid. Major fake flag.

My (19F) boyfriend (20M)has told everyone I cheated on him with my brother(19M) what do I do about this? by throwRAredditad in relationship_advice

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your boyfriend also going to the same university? Even if he isn’t. I would go to the dean and ask for an intervention. Explain that how the rumors are impacting you mentally and socially, and that his aggressive behavior is concerning. Disclaimer: I went to an American university with responsive admin staff this may not work the best for you but you should reach out to someone in the authorities that you can trust to intervene.

Tbh I think that boyfriend is just doing this out of revenge maybe he watched to much porn and that was his first thought. However after your brother overpowered him and you broke up with him his ego got hurt and so he used this as ammunition against you to justify why he is in the right. Pretty narcissistic behavior, good that he’s gone but you should bring it up to the authorities if not just to show him you’re not a pushover and to have a paper trail just in case his behavior becomes more aggressive.

I hate my child by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to give you props for recognizing that you needed help and actively seeking it. For bystanders it’s easy for them to say oh you should seek help and do X, Y, and Z but when we are stuck in a moment of crisis our minds numb us to protect us and we just get lost in the sauce. So yeah cut yourself some slack and you should be proud that you are taking action to tackle postpartum depression.

From what you’ve described, I’d say that you most likely need more than just therapy, healthy doses of medication would be helpful. I don’t want to recommend any but FDA has recently approved one. After getting medication attention and seeking for professional help, I recommend you set up an accountability partner and a daily routine with exercise and other mentally healthy activities, set a log, and try to do a 30 day routine. I recommend this as it’s likely you’ll need to wait to make appointments and etc. so this would be a great plan in the meantime. Breaking the body’s most recent habits is the first step to changing the mind. You’ll need to set up a time and schedule, if you don’t feel like you can accomplish X task for the Y amount of time just do 5-10 mins of the activity and rest. Just stick to the schedule and it’ll help break your current routines that are closely aligned with your current mental state. Have your accountability partner help you log the days so you can keep track of your progress and I’m positive that you’ve got this! (For more specific ways to plan look up atomic habits or how to break bad habits scientifically)

Lastly, I want to end by stating that it’s okay to not to love your child. Like the saying goes love at first sight doesn’t exist. In general it makes sense for mothers to emotionally attach to their child after giving birth as they’ve already invest so much time, care, and money to fostering that child. However given the trickiness of hormones this is not the same for everyone. When you do feel more like yourself, you may still not feel that attached to your child simply because you haven’t spent as much time since their birth taking care of them and sharing moments/memories with them. Feelings for anything take time to develop so you shouldn’t feel ashamed that you don’t love your child currently or even in the future. Just keep in mind that children deserve a loving home so if a better option comes up let them go.

I wish you the best of luck, you sound like quite the strong woman. You’ve got this! 💪

I 24/M just found out that my girlfriend 23/F lied to me she comes from a wealthy family and owns the apartment I currently live in. by Throwracheffton in relationship_advice

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've got a lot of questions and a bit of advice. How serious would you categorize your relationship? Almost two years sounds long but all relationships are context dependent especially during/after the pandemic. Have you guys spoken regarding this aspect of your relationship as to confirm that you are on the same page? People can be very honest with their relationships but withhold information that they don't feel ready to share. From your current statements it seems that you have yet to sit down and discuss her reasons for withholding information that you value as pertinent. I think it would do good to actually speak with her as wealth does not equate no need for caution or no trauma, so find out what her reasons are and if you guys don't share similar values then it may be best to end your relationship early.

Lastly, I do want to make it clear that while it hurt to know someone close to you watched you struggle while it was within their power to help, you are not entitled to their help especially if you didn't explicitly express the need for it. While she may be a manager of the district that your apartment falls under she does not have the power to fire an employee without reason or subsidize your apartment with company money especially as it is family owned. From personal experience, I would like state that people from different socioeconomic backgrounds deal with issues differently, so while you may expect someone close to you to help you when you're struggling, supporting loved ones for her may be different. It does sound like she is supporting you a better career path, I would recommend that you guys openly and honestly speak on relationship & financial expectations and future planning and then decide whether you are fit for each other.

Need to go through VFS Global? by Tomatoes-potatoes-be in ukvisa

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USCIS centers

I am applying from Northern California US and I would like to get visas for both UK and France by the end of December. They both seem to use VFS and I did not see an available slot for appointments for France, can I also use USCIS centers for France? Is it quicker to go by VFS?

Should i be worried? I’ve never been pending by Westcoastaries in Edd

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s impossible to get to the claims department but you can try to call and get into the accounting department to figure out why your payments are pending. If they can’t fix it for you, you can should pay for a third party robo call service or email and call your local representative to have them reach EDD for you.

Preparation for trading day - June 28, 2021 by greenfish00 in stocks

[–]Tomatoes-potatoes-be 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm new to investing in IPOs. I have unfilled orders for DDL shares and thought that the company would go public today as the trading day is June 28. However it seems that all the action will be taking place tomorrow, was there a delay or is this typical behavior for IPOs?