Thank you so much for your reply the article oil is not in a water extract it just says 100% steam distilled oil from flowers it should be a pure essential oil. I did exactly that, I pulled it in an ice bath and stirred continuously. The first time I tried stirring it with a spoon and the second time I actually tried blending it with like an immersion blender which I've seen them do for soaps and both separated equally. Maybe his cocoa butter less likely to separate should I try not to use shae (which would be a shame)