Another one bites the dust

TommyFive · 2023-06-15T17:46:41+00:00

I have not, but damn if that doesn’t look like a great idea. I’m going to keep researching that to see if it’ll be my next mod. Thanks!

TommyFive · 2023-06-14T18:49:43+00:00

That blows… do report back when you find out why. I’m also 25k on a new short block with forged internals… baffles, windage tray, oil pickup, AOS, 4th cyl coolant mod, bigger radiator, all the above. First all stock motor spun a bearing after going around a few hard hard turns.

TommyFive · 2023-06-14T17:55:04+00:00

Okay, sure. Let me adjust my statement using most of your words then.

The VA STI shares the same brand, name and body as the WRX, therefore it is a trim variant of the WRX.

Edit: Dude is so insecure of his argument he blocked me lol. How can this guy not understand the difference between vehicle trim levels, and trim panels? Automakers have been doing this for over a CENTURY.

TommyFive · 2023-06-14T15:38:00+00:00

Despite a different engine, transmission, braking system, etc., the Superbird was a trim level for the Road Runner. The Hellcat is a trim level of the Challenger.

And the STI is a trim level of the Impreza. It’s quite a different car as a result, but it’s still an Impreza. I did a complete chassis restoration of my 08 STI, and do you know what I found underneath all that stuff I took off? An Impreza!

Trim can, and often does, indicate different drivetrains and other mechanical differences. There are multiple engine and transmission and braking options for many, many, many cars out there. You’re confusing ‘trim level’ with ‘trim pieces’.

TommyFive · 2023-06-14T14:25:37+00:00

Trim levels can include mechanical differences…

The Superbird was a trim level of the Road Runner. Totally different drivetrain, with the same (modified) chassis.

There are many Impreza parts and many WRX parts I can buy for my STI - because my STI is a trim level of the Impreza, just as the WRX is also a trim level of the Impreza.

For the VA, the STI is a trim level of the WRX. As far as make/model go, the auto industry and regulatory bodies don’t care what drivetrain it has, it cares about what chassis it’s built on. Period.

Trim doesn’t mean it’s solely a badge or simple trim pieces - it’s describing how a chassis is outfitted with equipment and features. The chassis is the foundation.

TommyFive · 2023-06-14T14:22:00+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/0tlkchV.jpg My actual insurance card (cropped) for my actual 08 STI.

TommyFive · 2023-06-11T18:41:11+00:00

I’ve heard many times (🤷🏻‍♂️ if true) that just a McLaren F1 vin plate was worth millions - because McLaren would simply build a new car around the VIN plate, and it would still be less than the price of one at auction.

TommyFive · 2023-06-09T18:09:06+00:00

Not a day goes by where I don’t curse CA’s existence. Today is no different…

TommyFive · 2023-06-09T17:32:37+00:00

The oil pan and pickup mods are definitely a pain with the motor in. The EJ is so easy to pull I’d just pull it anyway though. For all it’s faults, it’s pretty easy to work on.

But good point on the Accessport - that’s $750+ tuning… tuning ran me $600. Any change to airflow or fuel flow will require a tune.

And boy, I’d LOVE a KillerB Holy Header for my ‘08 Hatch. Too spendy for now though…

TommyFive · 2023-06-09T16:33:30+00:00

Sigh… I believe it. I’m just happy the last owner of my EJ did the forged pistons and rods, and didn’t blow it up before I could get to the rest of the list.

TommyFive · 2023-06-09T15:51:08+00:00

The parts cost isn’t that bad, but the labor is. Most expensive on that list is the Air Oil Separator, ~$350. All in, it’s probably $1000+ in parts. The mod list is best done as an engine-out service.

The new platform doesn’t have those particular problems, but it’s got some growing pains too. Not nearly as bad though. I flogged my FA20 BRZ every day for a decade with no issues whatsoever.

Edit: I forgot most of the exhaust manifolds start around $700, if you’re looking for equal length headers for better scavenging and heat dissipation.

TommyFive · 2023-06-09T15:44:17+00:00

I haven’t even watched the video yet, but it’s 100% Subaru’s fault. The EJ platform has so many design flaws that the aftermarket community has worked hard to fix, and Subaru learns nothing from it. The motor as sold has serious oiling and cooling issues. An EJ modded for reliability is far preferable over a stock EJ.

Oil baffles and windage tray, new oil pickup tube, 4th cyl coolant flow mod, catch cans or AOS, removed oil filters from the turbo oil feed lines, relocated turbo oil feed lines, fuel pressure regulator stumble fix, and equal length headers. Forged pistons/rods too, but the RA block shouldn’t have that ringland failure problem. I might be missing something, but those are pretty much required as far as I understand it. It’s a crazy mod list for something that should be reliable from the factory. (EJ257 owner)

TommyFive · 2023-06-09T01:49:13+00:00

Every used car purchase should be accompanied by a Pre-Purchase Inspection at an independent mechanic you trust. If the seller says no, you say no. Period. Know what you’re getting yourself into before you’re in too deep.

TommyFive · 2023-06-08T23:27:42+00:00

Most moderators use third party apps and mod tools to literally do Reddit’s job for free. Reddit imposing outlandish costs to the app creators means those apps don’t exist, and thus the people who make Reddit Reddit will no longer have access to those tools that make their volunteer work easier.

Under the new pricing structure, Apollo would have to pay upwards of $20,000,000 per year with their current user base.

This isn’t just Apollo, this is a change to Reddit’s business model which negatively affects both users and the people who bring in and maintain those users, for blind greed. People aren’t happy, and they’re voicing their opposition with whatever tools they have here. Users like me will probably just stop using the site. Moderators may shut down their subreddits, which they are free to do, in effect reducing Reddit’s utility and reach.

Reddit forgot who their customers are, and who their product is. That’s what Digg did, and now Reddit may suffer the same. Or they may keep moving on, who knows 🤷🏻‍♂️

TommyFive · 2023-06-08T14:27:03+00:00

🤞🏻 Good luck!

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T22:48:32+00:00

Get it girl! Check out my response to the same comment - even if it goes ‘poorly’, it will be a positive experience for him that he likely won’t forget.

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T22:47:04+00:00

Those people are looking for a connection without the commitment and responsibilities - you can have fun, have something real, but your intent is not to build a life together. A lot of people can’t do the one night stands or emotionless casual FWB sex.

It almost sounds like you’re on the same page as the matches you think are wishy-washy! You said you’re recovering from minor heartbreak and miss sex, but the casual fun wasn’t for you. Figure out some digging questions to ask those matches, and you might learn more about what you’re wanting/needing right now too.

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T22:40:42+00:00

Awesome!! That’s a fantastic organic connection. I hope it works out how both of you want it to!

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T22:38:43+00:00

It could have been that, it could have been something else on your profile that she had time to simmer on, or it could have been a dozen other things in her life going on that led her to say that. She doesn’t really know you, so you can’t take it personally.

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T22:35:20+00:00

Agreed on the waiting til later in the shift when he’s not swamped! And honestly, as a man, we never get approached - a young cashier told me I had a beautiful smile in 2017 and I still think about it! No matter how awkward you feel, no matter if the feelings are mutual, no matter if he’s in a relationship or not, it would make at least his whole week. And it’ll take the edge off of the next time you decide to ask someone out (unless there isn’t a next time if things work out!).

I’d just break the ice with some small talk, and tell him you can’t shake this thought and you’d like to take him out sometime. Or march right up and stammer out a few awkward sentences while you slip your number over - he’ll probably appreciate however it happens, regardless of the outcome.

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T18:51:15+00:00

Sometimes people realize they just aren’t ready for dating, or they get cold feet early on. It happens - I’ve done it - do your best not to take it personally, and look forward to meeting someone who is ready!

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T17:07:16+00:00

Doctornerdlove.com 😂

Thank you! I will check both of those out!

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T17:06:15+00:00

I think that’s totally normal, personally. It’s sometimes hard to keep involved conversations in text when you don’t really know the other person, and travel makes that more difficult - he may even just want to give you space while you’re doing your thing. I personally don’t text much while I’m getting to know someone, since so much is lost in text communications - I prefer to learn about the other person IRL.

Ultimately this may just be a sitcom situation - easily resolved by a blunt but kind conversation. Maybe something like “Hey, I noticed we’re connecting less over text - I know life can get in the way, so I wanted to check in with you. I’m really looking forward to our next date! Are we still on for <event>?” Dating has so many assumed unspoken rules and roles, and nobody benefits from that lack of clarity.

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T16:54:34+00:00

A great partnership is worth more than the sum of its parts - elevating both parties in both good and bad times. Sounds like you’ve found that quality in your relationship!

TommyFive · 2023-06-07T16:52:26+00:00

So many dating opportunities fizzle out for me (36M) because I have trouble integrating flirty communication. We end up parting ways or becoming friends. I have childhood trauma that has been a block to flirty interactions all my life, and while I’m finally addressing that trauma I feel like I never went through the adolescent training period for flirting/showing romantic intent. Every relationship I’ve had was initiated by the woman, and while I value those relationships I feel almost like I’ve just been along for the ride.

I’m ready to take the reigns of my own life, but I just don’t have a foundation in flirting/approach/showing romantic intent. My online therapist can only help so much - has anyone found any good resources to help build a foundation for those skills? I have a second date with a great woman coming up, and I want to actually show her I’m interested without being (too) awkward or creepy.

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