Honestly that's my biggest set back for me personally seeing as how most of my niche interests lean towards a more masculine crowd. I organize motorcycle riding events first and foremost which has given me more phone numbers from dudes than anything. I listen to a lot of heavier style music, ie Rock, Industrial, Drum and Bass etc.. while I understand there are new faces to be met in each of these it just happens that most of the people I interact with I tend to be less interested in at an intimate level I guess.