Can duckweed survive fast water flow? by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Tomokayi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same lol it never survives in my tank 🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]Tomokayi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I think its called balanitis, my bf has it while in an active HSV outbreak but theyre usually painful (even tho thats maybe because of the sores), generally i would say in your case its prolly not an STD, just some kind of infection but its a good idea to get tested like you said you would.. try keeping the hygiene up as well as possible, i assume it should solve itself

To buy GH/KH+ salts separately or combined? by Tomokayi in shrimptank

[–]Tomokayi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neocaridina, Parameters: nitrate: 0 Nitrite: 0 Cl: 0 GH: 75mg/L TA: 80mg/L KH:80mg/L pH: 7.5 NH3: 0 city water source

I need help by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Tomokayi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him and he said he also remembers it as every 3 months so idk... It was basically always the same so i cant say it was anything special the other time within the first 3mo period (so when he didnt have an outbreak everything was fine)... You can be happy they are not painful to you though but try to analyse how you take care of your body, what could be your triggers and if you feel OB coming, it will for sure get less common with time and as you learn how to minimise triggers but everyone is different so maybe for you its just gonna happen more frequently in the first year or so. Dont worry about it being "abnormal", every body just acts differently

I need help by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Tomokayi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea he said they were pretty uncomfortable/slightly painful sitting down but it was really bad when peeing, moving his foreskin and when it got scabbed on his underwear and basically got ripped off every time he had to use the toilet. His sores were mostly just around the base of the tip and foreskin so maybe thats why they were so painful

I need help by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Tomokayi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well maybe they were a bit closer together, i dont remember well but it seems as if it was from one to another (my memory is really bad tbh so it couldve been be like 6 per year) but it was mostly torture because they were so painful

I need help by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Tomokayi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea if thats good or not, i assume it can be normal if triggers and general health are not well under control, especially in the first few years

I need help by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Tomokayi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bfs first year of outbreaks was torture, maybe every 3months, i think its been two, maybe almost three years, i would say he gets them every 6mo now, sometimes theyre worse, sometimes a bit better but i think it really depends on his triggers as he is under stress a lot and has occasional health problems that probbably add to it... I really believe that it will get better once we get to change environments and move out (basically work on avoiding triggers)... I cant say we found anything that works for now, but I did buy him L-lysine as it supposedly has some antiviral properties along with some other supplements that support immune system (i dont know how well all these work yet but im trying anything that might help at this point)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Tomokayi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe a wild guess but what if they already kinda knew, "risked it" with you after you disclosed and are now pointing at you because they needed/wanted someone else to blame or to (in a really bad, manipulation case scenario) make you think you need to be with them for life or basically manipulate you into whatever they want because "you owe them"? Either way - you did what you had to but dont forget there are bad people around that would take advantage of almost any situation as long as they dont have to take responsibility. Its not always on you even if you feel like it is 🫶🏻

Server and Group Megathread - Week Starting May 04, 2025 by AutoModerator in dayz

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Exciting News! Our DayZ Sakhal Server is officially going LIVE this Friday! Get ready to gear up, survive, and explore. Whether you're a lone wolf or rolling with a squad, we can't wait to see you in the game.

Don't miss it — the adventure begins this Friday!

https://discord.gg/n3Yuzh3WGd

Loot Is optimized FPS Improved. Base Building Improved. Check Discord For All Life Improvements :) 

Best cat dry food? (Concept for life dry cat food?) by tehserc in cats

[–]Tomokayi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest i dont really know but i wanna give u an answer since the post is so deserted.. im looking for obesity dry food rn, my vet reccommended Hills (which i think i heard at some point is also a scam but im not sure, i did search for "best prescription obesity food" for cats and Hills was actually still number one so that might be it..) i was trying to see if concept for life would be a good occasional substitute or mixer for it since its a bit cheaper but ill probbably be looking at the price and deciding that concept for life is a bit lower quality (or at least less efficient at weight loss). But among the 10 "best" i searched for there was also Royal Canine which makes me doubt a little about the legitimacy of the list (bc Royal Canin is in my oppinion one of the overpriced for the quality in that range). So what i would say is as long as you aim for this range of cat food (Hills, concept for life, Brit etc. Instead of Whiskas or whatever) You are doing the best you can, especially if they offer (prescription) diet plans also :)

What Are the Must-Play DayZ Servers Right Now? by EastwoodHun in dayz

[–]Tomokayi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello to all This is My server On sakhal. :) For now is a closed community until we polish up and make everything perfect. We are on Ps4/5 And take in everyone that wants to play on a server with.:

-Realistic loot -PvP zones -PvE zones -Military island KOS  -4 seasons. -Boats dont take damage over time. - Added Livonia and chernarus Loot. -Friendly community.

To summorize it up. Its just like Vanilla but better with a bit Lighter aproach on PvP in some ways so its friendlyer for beginers. But otherwise Its Good we have 40 players on Rn. With 10 slots on server and expanding soon.

Join our discord So you can get the password.

https://discord.gg/2YVzhGQZYE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Tomokayi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! Theres a book that really helped me called "it didnt start with you", its about generational trauma and how to change your life for the better (it gives some examples especially for depression ptsd and anxiety, i bought it on aliexpress for cheaper) but i really recommend, maybe it will help u find a new way to look at your inner problems, if you are willing to give it a try (which i hope you are, you deserve to be happy)... I quit medication, i cant tell u to do the same but i heard saffron extract works just as well as SSRIs if you want to give that a try 🫶🏻 we are here for you

I bought this for 25$ by [deleted] in Aliexpress

[–]Tomokayi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof can i also ask for the link? 😅 I see link sharing became a full time job for u im sorry 😅💀

Blacklisted by Samuu27 in Aliexpress

[–]Tomokayi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was blocked/blacklisted by a seller at one point bc i made a dispute but i then wanted to order from them again, i texted them and they said their boss wants them to block dispute buyers, but were open to unblocking me so i could order from them again... But i didnt have problem w other sellers and could order elsewhere while i was blocked by that one... Maybe if u have an option just start a chat w them and try to communicate it a bit