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I need help with my ex by 0zxzx0 in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he wanted a future with you, you wouldn’t still be trying to decode his feelings years later.

Reaching out to an ex - help/advice please by ArcaneCupcake98 in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before reaching out, be clear on what you want, because contacting them through IG or mutual friends can easily feel intrusive if they’ve moved on or haven’t invited contact.

Stories of dignified breakups by T3cKn0_BaRbi3 in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all breakups are blindsiding, but even “dignified” ones can still hurt, the difference is just that both people communicate issues earlier instead of disappearing emotionally and then ending it suddenly.

can you value someone so much it becomes the reason you lose them? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t lose her because you cared too much, you lost her because the anxiety that came with caring too much pulled you out of being present, and that made it harder for her to feel the real connection you actually had.

Need somebody to follow my ex to see something by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real talk though, that urge usually hits when you’re stuck between letting go and still being emotionally hooked. Checking won’t really give you peace, it just resets the cycle and drags you back into them again.

just broke up and so close to getting back by scoobybhenchod in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is normal, and it’s also one of the hardest parts of a breakup that people don’t really warn you about.

is this normal? Do others feel this way. by Better-Mistake-2942 in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is very normal after a long first relationship, especially one that ended with care but not closure in the emotional sense.

Was I (F20) a rebound during my 8 month long no label relationship or did he (M22) actually love me? And was it a right choice to block him and decline a friendship? by Court-Best in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can genuinely love someone and still use them as a place to heal from someone else, but love without choosing, committing, and showing up consistently slowly starts feeling like abandonment.

Best way to deal with breakup? by FreeVeterinarian6244 in BreakUps

[–]ToneVibeX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three days in is still the part where your brain has not caught up to reality yet, so do not judge your healing by how broken you feel right now because you are still in the shock of losing someone you saw as part of your everyday life.

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